In many relationships, people encounter something like my question.. has anyone ever lasted long enough till they meet again? what do we have to do to keep the relationship going.. do we fall out of love or do we get hurt by the other part of us leaving us.
I fell very much for a girl that lived far away from me, not the other side of the world, but still too far to visit occasionally. I gave up far too quickly on making it work and regret it every day. The only advice I can give is, if you really care about that person you'll find a way to make it work...if not, give up and live the next few years of your life (if not forever) regretting what could have been. Your choice.
Your right, tuns of people encounter this little bump in the road. If your hearts where it's supposed to be everything should last. Just hope that the person on the other side is feeling the same thing.
Trust your gut feelings, unless you get paranoid.
Do things that keep the person intrigued. Be experiential.
I was in a long distance relationship for 2 and half years. My boyfriend went to college 2 state away. I would go visit him occasionally and he came home some, but it was very very hard. I was so lonely when he moved. I thought I would never get over it. Things got pretty rocky when he started doing drugs and not taking my phone calls and not calling me. So I moved out there with him. I lived there for a year and then I couldn't take it anymore. His behavior didn't change.
I was actually more lonely out there with him than I was at home without him. At least at home I had friends and family. He moved back home a couple months after I did and we dated a little longer. But nothing was ever the same. We're still friends, and he still wants us to be together, but I just can't. So to answer your question (finally lol), I think in order for a long distance relationship to work, both people have to work on it. It can't be one sided. You both have to want to commit the extra time and effort to be together. Otherwise, it'll just fizzle.
You should never rush into along d relationship, cause it can turn bad. Thats why a guy I met we are takeing it slow, before anything.. but yes they can work if you let them.. but you both have to want it - 10 months ago
Question Asker
Yes... I agree wit you alot.. but do you get advice from ur friends? i've had advice from a few but most, if not all, tells me to jz dump him now tat I'm so far away.. how can I do tat.. - 10 months ago
Answerer
I always used to get advice about him and all my friends said I should dump him. But that's sumthing you have to do in ur own time. If you think you can work on it and handle the distance, try it 4 a lil bit and see how it goes. If not then its time to move on - 10 months ago
asked 3 days ago
Site Links
About GirlsAskGuys
GirlsAskGuys Widgets
Help Us Improve!
