Two months ago my girlfriend and my best friend started a "relationship". My girlfriend didn't want to move to california with me and he kind of butted in and comforted her to the point where they were kissing while I was asleep, rubbing on each others stomach and then continued talking even after I knew something wasn't right and ended the friendship.
She called him frequently and text him everyday all day. She did tell me....and I do love her. But when I wake up in the morning I feel dirty and I feel nothing but hatred for her. What would you do in this situation? I mean I can leave to california or stay with her...I dunno any advice
Update: Update-we've been going out for three and a half years. maybe that will help people understand.
10 months ago
Update: Never mind this question. it was her. she did everything and then lied to me and blamed it on him....god damn I f***ed up wasting my time on her.
10 months ago
Just let her go. She's obviously not a trustworthy person. Seems to me like you were betrayed by both of them, and it's in your best interest to forget both of them. Yes, three years is a long time, but she should have considered that when she cheated on you.
Your best friend has obviously been a bit jealous of you and your gf for a while - As she has didn't want you to move with her, it could mean she doesn't have the same feelings for you as she used too. She is obviously feeling very confused about what is going on in your relationship atm, this causing her to turn to the first person who will listen (in this case your best friend). It seems that 3-half years is a long time for her to cope with, so in my opinion you should just get it to rest and finish with her before someone gets hurt.
Thank you very much. you're a very smart girl. - 10 months ago
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You don't want to stay with her. Go to Cali! I know it seems like a difficult decision since you've dating her for so long, is she still cheating on you with him? She may have been keeping her options open because you're moving, but you're still here so it is very wrong. You shouldn't change what you want to do for someone else. If she doesn't want to come with you, forget that cheating loser.
No she's the one that came out and told me AFTER I said I'm done with her. I told her I knew something wasn't right and she told me. she said she told him she just wanted to be friends but I find that quite difficult to believe. - 10 months ago
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You're very confusing. Don't ask if you don't want an opinion. You obviously want to stay with her. - 10 months ago
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No I was saying no to if she was still cheating on me. *sshole. - 10 months ago
She isn't trustworthy; forget her and move on. You're wasting your time. I don't care how good the sex is; it isn't worth it if you always have to keep wondering about her!
God I hate you...lol...you're the voice of reason you bastard. I want the voice of lust...she did let me f*** her in the ass twice(which has never happened)...but eh lmao this doesn't help solve my case that she is not a whore. - 10 months ago
Don't make any damn difference. Get rid of her. She's a slut. What do you think she will do after you're married? She'll be rubbing on somebody's cock.
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