You can read more details in my other question, but here we go. I like this guy at school & I just met him this year. I’m not sure when I really started to ‘like’ him but it’s been at least since October. He sits next to me at lunch everyday & if anyone tries to sit between us he won’t let them. I think he likes me back but at the same time I’m not 100% sure & I’m not the type to say something first. I’m too shy. About two weeks ago I did this ’25 facts’ note tag on Facebook & I put on one of them that I had a crush on someone. Well, he’d gotten an account not too long before that & he did so after I told him he should get one. After reading my note & facts he commented saying something along the lines of, “such-and-such number is about me, isn’t it? Yeah, I’m being egotistical, ect ect”. Well, we had a bunch of replies back & forth & I hinted that it was a yes & then he said he’d say yes back. Well the next day at school, he said he was tired the night before & was like, “What were we even talking about?” So I just kind of played dumb like I felt like he was doing. He continued to make a bunch of references to Facebook, but I was too chicken to say anything since he wouldn’t really come out & say anything exactly about it either. Well, I planned on saying something to him if nothing happened on the Friday before Valentines Day. The Seniors did a fundraiser so you could send a rose or candy kiss & a note to someone, so I ended up sending him a kiss with a note saying, “I said yes, so what’s going to happen next?” Well I did it anonymous & a lot of people made a big deal about him getting a kiss & note. Well, they were trying to figure out who it was & he said, “I know who it’s from.” But he wouldn’t tell anyone. Well after a few minutes, which this happened at lunch, he turned to me & said, “You said yes, and I said yes, but you have to explain to everyone.” Well…I’m just not that way. I mean, I would if he’d do it with me, but I don’t want to come out & tell everyone by myself. So…I ended up playing dumb myself then & was just like, “What?” A guy friend of both of ours has caught on to us liking each other & now he’s always commenting & saying things about us being a ‘cute couple’. The other day in English the tables were next to each other, my crushes & mine & our friend started moving my crushe’s & his table since the seating is different & he joked, “We don’t like you anymore Amanda!” Then my crush said, “I like her.” Our friend, “I –know– you do.” & then neither of us said anything. We used to talk more on MSN but now we hardly do. It seems like I’m the only one starting the conversations which last maybe 5 minutes & he never starts them anymore. I’d like to say something, but I just don’t know. Before the Facebook thing he always said goodmorning to me before class, but now it seems a lot more rare & it makes me sad. So…is he losing interest now? Or does he still like me but since neither of us says anything, we’re both too shy or nervous?
To me it sounds like you're shy and he's shy too, and or he wants you to acknowledge him and his feelings for you, before he does/says anything so he doesn't feel/seem like a fool for coming out about it.
I've been in that situation, so I think that's why my advice and thinking is coming from. If it's not too late (which is probably pretty likely) I hope this at least helps you understand what he may have been thinking and his possible thought process.
ask him if he wants to chill and wen yu chill grab his hand after flirting a little and go in for a kiss but no all the way let him kiss you and maybe play with his **** a little bit. ask him if he's looking for a gf
You know what you have to do. If he isn't going to make things official or be honest, then you have to, otherwise I don't think the relationship will go anywhere.
no I think he still likes you but SPEAK UP, really I'm warning you. as I was reading that its like I was reading my own story, except with a slightly different twist. like the EXACT same thing happened to me (even all the facebook stuff, but it wasnt in a 25 things..it was messaging we both confessed) but that's not the point, I mean after all our awkward days at school and stuff, he almost became mad and I have noooo idea why, so I'm afraid something might make his mind change and he will lose interest in you, and it'll be too late. so before it is, talk to him in the morning. and ask him if he's alright. make it show you care, and ask him if the whole "yes" thing online was weird. and if he says no, then you can be cool again with him and see where things go. but if he says yeah, tell him you hope you didn't mess things up and see what he says.
Ok I think it's pretty obvious he likes u... and ur story is pretty cute by the way :) But it seems like he kinda was trying to say something and was waiting for you to say that you liked him back. But you didn't really... and so maybe he kinda gave up... so I think you need to say something to him... maybe over MSN or in person... just tell him you like him... or ask him out... I really doubt you have to worry about rejection. He likes u Good luck. Keep us updated :)
just ask him to accompany you somewhere. this game can go on and on and on forever. and you will lose much sleep and post many qns as to does he like you or not. but honestly, nobody around here knows. you gotta just be brave and deal with it yourself. ask him out somewhere and see his reaction. if he ain't interested, move on
I think you should ask him out.. stop playing.. stop beating around the bush just be BLUNT... I was in a similar situatuation not to long ago... but I kept being shy... but I finally decided to let mysefl out... and now we are together... GOOD LUCK... o and I'm not sayin it was easy... BUT I DO THINK YOU SHOULD GO FOR IT!
He might have given up a little because it felt like nothing was happening. This doesn't mean he's lost interest, but that he's just trying to move on. Clearly you don't want this to happen, so I think you're gonna have to ask him how he feels about you. However, it seems the two of you, although you talk to each other and stuff, are a little awkward with one another, so asking "Do you like me?" straight out could seem super daunting. Maybe you could ask your mutual friend if he could find out for definite how your crush feels about you. That way you don't have to ask him straight out, but hopefully you'll still get the answer you need. I don't think you should give up before attempting to find out what he's thinking about everything. He seems more confused and shy than anything else. Good luck =)
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