Okay well, he's one of my best friends and we talk about EVERYTHING. He used to like me at the start of last year, and I secretly liked him too. But then he got a girlfriend. That was horrible, but I got over it. Then. I started liking him again. Then I got over it AGAIN.
Yes, I know, it's really annoying.
But now, he's telling me that he thinks he likes me. And that would be all good except he's gonna stop talking to me cos he doesn't want to like me! oh and also cos his girlfriend hates him talking to me.
I really miss him. So. What to do?
Update: it's all good, he broke up with his girlfriend and we're together now :)
2 months ago
Something you should know about yourself. It's a fact that girls find a man more attractive when other girls approve of him.
If you are attracted to him for the sole reason that another girl likes him and you think that your life will be complete if you have his approval, you are thinking irrationally.
Go back to the basics - something I'm sure your parents told you since day one: do what makes you happy. This is your life, this is about you. Stop waiting for him to make up his mind and make up yours. Quickly.
i think he really likes you but doesn't want to break up with his girlfriend... if you like him, should be able to understand why his girlfriend doesn't want him talking to u. you are either making her jealous and nervous about how faithful he will be or she knows he's a catch and doesn't want to lose him. right now if ur talking to him with the intent to get with him don't do it... its jst rong...if ur talking to him and he ends up breaking up with his girlfriend don't get together with him right away. but either way if you really like him I think you will end up talking to him anyway with either my reasons or a new one. so jst ignore his girlfriend and talk to him anyway
My advice? Get over him, and quickly before you get hurt again. Don't stick around for him if he is just playing games with you. You don't deserve that. If you have a hard time getting over him and can't let go, try stop talking to him, at least until he is single.
I think that he isn't worth it if he is going to stop talking to you just because that's what his current girlfriend wants and he wants to be with her at the moment so he doesn't want to be stuck in the situation of him liking you too and feeling he has to choose between you two. So I say get rid of him and ignore him.
I agree with Shuba! he is not going to stop talking to you if he really likes you. yeah, you may not hear from him in awhile. but, guys are dumb. he'll start to miss you & come back :]
ok ya he has a girlfriend but maby if you talk to him about it he will change his mind.. everyguy makes a hundered mistakes and so do girls but he will totaly find out that uve been there for him s since hte beggining and he will totlaly start liking you and stuff lol I'm not very good at this but he will remember that ur a great freind and uve been there since the beggining
Nothing. he made his choice.. and it was his girlfriend.. it sucks I know.. but in the end if you stop talking to him you will always be able to walk away knowing.. "shes not me, and she never will be" .. first of all, he is a bad friend for not talking to you anymore just because of his girlfriend.. and you don't deserve that.. second of all.. don't wait for a guy.. guys are simple if he really wanted to be with you he would.. girls are the ones who complicate things with our analyzing etc. lolol but in reality.. you know how beyonce sings "if you liked then you should of put a ring on it" well in real life.. if a guy really liked it.. he would.. lol no doubt in that.. the fact that he didn't just means he's being jealous for a short while or whatever reason but not that he ever wanted or wants to put a ring on it? lol sorry for going on a rant there.. just hope it makes it clear to you... with that said.. you're young and he probably is too... so this issue can be soo much more complex then what you are telling me or what he is telling you.. but for his age now.. and yourself.. do not let him treat you like that. he doesn't want to like you.. fine tell him not to like you.. but don't ever chase him either. when you find yourself thinking about him find something else to do.. before you know it you will get over it.
dont worry. have faith. especially if the guy says that he likes you. and he is gonna stop talking to you. he just saying it... its not easy to stop liking someone by not talking. rather I feel he will develop more and more feelings for you. do talk to him. but don't be pushy. if you feel he isn't respondind hold back and have patience. In the meantime if you can .. get someone else. Hope it helps.
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