Can a guy see a girl for almost a year and not have feelings for her?

Most guys can't, but the number of responses here to this kind of question have me convinced that some can. These are not good guys.

I suspect that this is a self-esteem issue for you. Even within your question you refer to what he wants. It is good to have balance in relationship and to think about what each other needs. However, this should not be done at the expense of what you need and want. You have to be willing to set standards for your guys before you reward them. Otherwise you are reinforcing a "sex only" attitude.

Good men expect love and commitment in relationship to precede sex. Anyone who is not willing to make that commitment should not be schtupped. And you need to make yourself comfortable with that standard for yourself. Otherwise you are inviting unstable men into your life and 100% of them will hurt you.

Yes he can. If your looking for a real relationship it won't be from him. The other girl is right, he's getting the milk for free, why buy the cow? He's waiting for something better to come along, as soon as that happens, he's gone. Been there, done that. Save yourself some grief.

Yes, first off were you a rebound? How soon did he stop dating the girlfriend before you? Bad guys will say anything to have sex. Good guys say it when they mean it and they do not retract it at all. He sounds immature. Stop being confused and take control of the situation. Just stop sleeping with him. If he stops loving you, or meets someone else, then you know he is an ass. Every girl has the type of relationship she allows herself to be in. You can can take control. Once you do, you won't be confused anymore.

Um. You're giving the milk away for free without making him buy the cow?? Well, he's just using you because you make yourself available to him.

My advice: cut it off and let him go.