Okay, so here is a short rundown of the guys in my life:
1. "D" - used to be a hot and heavy room mate, but moved out and got his own place (where I am never invited). Now a FWB, but relatively infrequently. Tells me he loves me, then disappears for a week.
2. "S" - Older than me and married, but unhappily so. Calls almost every night, infrequent guest, but spends the night. We're cool. I demand nothing, neither does he. Light and easy. Says he loves me because of it.
3. "M" Ex husband who still has the mindset of being married to me. Lives across the country. Amicable split, but I never discuss other guys. Still loves me (and tells me weekly).
Do I buy ANY of these guys a Valentine's gift, or just accept whatever they give me without reciprocating? Need a guy's opinion on this.
D treats you as a booty call and is being nice about it by saying he loves you (I would love my booty call too)....S is married, tells you it's unhappy cause he doesn't want his booty call to think that she may be the cause of a breakup.....and the ex is an ex for a reason. No gifts required for any.....however, because you're the booty in the booty call than a gift for you is required.