Ive been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, I know it doesn't seem that long, but I really think he's the one. He's very overprotective at times though and very hypocritical, as in he can do something but I shouldn't be able to..
For example: He can go out for 6 hours to play "video games" with his friends, but when I mention going out then he sounds extremely bummed so I feel guilty and end up not going.
Fun right? But I love him soooo much, I feel like he's doing this just because he cares so much. But my real question is that when things get even more serious, and when I graduate will all of this hold me back and keep me from exceeding in life?
Sounds like he's being a bit selfish. You're young, I know you think he's the one (and he might be) but you will probably find once you get to college that you want to date some more people before you settle down for good. Remember, you might be with this guy for the next 50 years...
You shouldn't have to sacrifice your fun if he doesn't either. You are young you need to explore and have fun, and if he's going to hold you back maybe he is wasting your time. best of luck.
I was once in a similar situation with a guy I dated when I was 20. I'd have opportunities to go out with friends and he'd react in what I now realize was a very passive-aggressive manner. He'd always say it was fine for me to go out, but I'd feel guilty or whatever and decide that I'd hang out with him instead... not that I thought I minded then.
Eventually we decided to take a break. I went out with some friends, including a guy friend I hadn't seen in a while. First thing he said to me was, "did you break up with your boyfriend?" I was so shocked by his intuitive question and asked why he said that. "I don't know. You just seem... different... so much happier than before."
It was that moment that I realized I missed going out with our friends and I hated not being social. Ultimately spending time away from him helped me realize we weren't right for each other for other reasons, too.
The going out to play video game thing just may be true because my bf does the same thing. I'm actually there watching him play Madden for freakin 4-7 hours it's so stupid! Pisses me off and yea he sounds kinda greedy maybe jealous. He doesn't really want you to go out probably thinks you'll flirt or eye some other dudes. it's normal though. Best of luck to the both of you ^_^
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Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
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