Relationship Survey

1.no not really, haven't found the right one yet still looking.
2.independent
3.independent
4.It depends on how much I am moved by the experience(I try to hold it in)
5.Trust,fun,experience,compassion,maturity,great sex.
6.Not very long..it sucks....but I love women..alot
7.not really, they tend to ruin a relationship
8.yes seems the only way to really meet serious people its more laid back approach
9.leave them.
10.No
11.any sexual intended physical contact,...conversing with a potential partner other than me
12.doesnt really matter; but I like experience
13.enlightend,compassionate,loving,energetic.lighthearted,easygoing,artistic,hard working,trustworthy,independent,
14.Sneaker pimps- six underground
15.living

1. No
2. Independent.
3. Independent.
4. Yes, definitely.
5. Honesty, intellectual conversations, physical and emotional attraction
6. Depends on the level of "attachment", I'd say a month or two.
7. Changes from girl to girl, I try to get along no matter what.
8. Already did, had a 10 month relationship and met a bunch of times. Not something I would consider doing usually, it would have to be something really special.
9. I'd break up with her immediately, and not give her another chance.
10. Never.
11. Any form of physical expression of love like kissing on the mouth... really anything that could be considered intimate, online or in real life with someone else.
12. Doesn't make any difference, but I prefer someone who hasn't slept with that many people.
13. hardworking, honest, intelligent, easy-going, funny, ambitious, healthy, optimistic, modest, goofy.
14. The ones that are on when we're having a good time usually.
15. Same as 14.

1.) Are you in a relationship? Yes, and loving every second of it :)

2.) Are you independent or dependent while you are in a relationship? I am a little of both, mostly independent. A certain degree of dependent-ness is good though, because it makes him feel needed.

3.) Which do you prefer of the opposite sex: independent or dependent? Both, again its good to be dependent on each other for some things, but not everything.

4.) Do you show your emotions? ( When your dog dies you cry for over a week or 2, or do you try to hold it in and not show anybody? ) I generally tried to hide my emotions, but he told me not to, so we are both pretty open with things like this. My cat just died and he spent the day comforting me, within a half hour after I found out. He actually called off work for me.

5.) What do you think is needed in a relationship? ( not love, I meant what qualities, and things like that. in example: trust, and lust ) Trust, honesty, care, and a connection.

6.) When you start going out with somebody does it take you long to get attached? I get attached but not too much, I hate seeing people that are clingy and need to see someone every day.

7.) Do you usually like your gf/bf's friends? Why or Why not? yes I actually knew most of them before we started dated and became friends with them. They are all pretty great people.

8.) Would you ever talk to somebody online and meet them? ( when looking for a relationship ) I would never consider online dating,but that's just my opinion. If your meant to be with someone you'lll meet them without needing outside help.

9.) What would you do if somebody you were going out with for over 6 months cheated on you with somebody he/she met online? ( this is just a scenario.. never happened to me lol ) I would break things off with them immediately and cut off contact with them. I don't handle cheaters well...

10.) Have you ever cheated on a boyfriend, or girlfriend? How old were you when you did ( if you did), who did you cheat on the person with and how? No, I would never cheat on someone, its cruel and unnecessary. If you like someone else, break things off and be with them completely.

11. What do YOU consider cheating? I consider making out and anything past that as cheating.

12. Do you prefer virgins or non-virgins? It doesn't matter to me

13. Describe yourself in 10 good words. ( personality wise.. like: loyal, trustworthy, trusting, laid back, etc., ) loyal, trustworthy, I have problems trusting people, sweet, loving, considerate, caring, workaholic (we work together, so this works:)...

14. What song makes you feel amazing when you are in a relationship? In this relationship, the song Forever by Papa Roach. We heard it about 3 or 4 times in the car on our first date :)

15. What makes you feel horrible after a break-up? ( what songs, and that kind of thing ) After my previous break-up I refused to listen to NeYo - Sexy Love. I heard this song every morning in his car:(

1 - No

2 - A little bit of both. I like the comfort of knowing he's there for me when I need him, and like spending time with him and his friends/family. But I also give him his space and make sure I take care of everything I need to do on my own, too.

3 - More independent

4 - I very rarely cry or get really upset about things, but when it comes to relationships I definately wear my heart on my sleeve. I can't help it.

5 - Trust, attraction, generosity, time together AND apart, being open to new ideas/experiences, getting along with eachothers family and friends, communication

6 - A few weeks i'd say...

7 - Yes, I don't think I could date a person who had a completely different personality than me. If we were similar we would most likely have mutual friends, and if not I'd be open to meeting his and introducing mine.

8 - Yeah, you never know when you're gonna meet someone you like. Plus in a way it's almost better because you like eachother based solely on conversation.

9 - I would obviously be pissed that I was cheated on. And to make myself feel better I would emphasize the fact that they "met ONLINE" to make him sound lame, and myself feel better haha.

10 - I've only cheated on one person and I'll never/haven't done it again. He lied to me about dealing drugs and when I caught him and confronted him he made me look like a controlling bitch infront of all of his friends (when I confronted him privately). So I hooked up with someone I had previously been seeing, (they didn't like eachother). But I also knew he was cheating on me with his ex. Yeahhh I broke up with him shortly after.

11 - Technically cheating would be ANYTHING physical, but if I knew my boyfriend was saying things to another girl that he wouldn't say to his sister, I would be just as upset.

12 - No preference, although i'd feel weird taking someone's virginity unless we were in love

13 - Funny, strong, spontaneous, smart, clever, successful, mature, experienced, adaptable, caring

14 - I couldn't say, a song that reminds me of when we first started hangin out

15 - hearing/seeing him talking with another girl, basically any kind of music because 99% of them are about love

Here is a survey, I hope you take the time to think about your answers, too! ;) If you think you can say why to a question then please do!

1.) Are you in a relationship? its complicated lol its an open relationship

2.) Are you independent or dependent while you are in a relationship? dependent

3.) Which do you prefer of the opposite sex: independent or dependent
independent

4.) Do you show your emotions? ( When your dog dies you cry for over a week or 2, or do you try to hold it in and not show anybody? )
no

5.) What do you think is needed in a relationship? ( not love, I meant what qualities, and things like that. in example: trust, and lust )
trust and loyalty

6.) When you start going out with somebody does it take you long to get attached?
no

7.) Do you usually like your gf/bf's friends? Why or Why not?
sometimes just depends

8.) Would you ever talk to somebody online and meet them? ( when looking for a relationship )
yes

9.) What would you do if somebody you were going out with for over 6 months cheated on you with somebody he/she met online? ( this is just a scenario.. never happened to me lol )
depends what he wanted

10.) Have you ever cheated on a boyfriend, or girlfriend? How old were you when you did ( if you did), who did you cheat on the person with and how?
yes. its very complicated

11. What do YOU consider cheating?
anything more than a friendly kiss

12. Do you prefer virgins or non-virgins?
non

13. Describe yourself in 10 good words. ( personality wise.. like: loyal, trustworthy, trusting, laid back, etc., )
relaxed, sexual, happy, trusting, partygirl, reliable, talkative, observative, crazy, loving

14. What song makes you feel amazing when you are in a relationship?
when everything just clicks

15. What makes you feel horrible after a break-up? ( what songs, and that kind of thing )
songs we listened to together, red trucks, lol idk

You can answer all of the questions, or you can answer whatever ones you think are [ hardest, easiest, the ones you have time for.. anything like that! ;) ]\


I will, however, take time to answer all of the myself, and I will pick a best answer based on what I think of your answers to the survey. =)

Update: Definitions of Independent and Dependent:

Independent - not relying on another or others for aid or support.

Dependent - relying on someone or something else for aid, support, etc.

1. it complicated
2.independent
3.dependent
4. don't stop my emotion only went I really need too.
5. trust
6.yes
7.sometimes
8.i really trust the internet properly not.
9. I kind of cheated I kiss a other guy. we were on a break,
10. been cheated on at 4 years we are still working on things. we are coming close to 5 years. we are on a break. its sucks its really is hard we do love each other hopeful we can make it.
11. sex
12. Doesn't matter as long if he haven't been with too many woman.
13. laid back, easy going, trustworthy, independent, workacholic
14. knowing I am loved and having a great time with him.
15. misisng him

1.) Are you in a relationship? No.

2.) Are you independent or dependent while you are in a relationship? Independent.

3.) Which do you prefer of the opposite sex: independent or dependent ; Independent.

4.) Do you show your emotions? Sometimes.

5.) What do you think is needed in a relationship? honesty, trust, great communication, chemistry, compromise.

6.) When you start going out with somebody does it take you long to get attached? depends on the guy and if I feel instant chemistry...if so, I fall fast. If not, it takes a while but eventually.

7.) Do you usually like your gf/bf's friends? Why or Why not? Yeah usually. It's like an extension of my boyfriend, it tells a lot about them and who they like to associate with.

8.) Would you ever talk to somebody online and meet them? The chances are slim, but my friends have done it and it came out well...

9.) What would you do if somebody you were going out with for over 6 months cheated on you with somebody he/she met online? That would suck. But, shit happens.

10.) Have you ever cheated on a boyfriend, or girlfriend? How old were you when you did ( if you did), who did you cheat on the person with and how? Nope.

11. What do YOU consider cheating? emotionally involved & physically involved with someone else.

12. Do you prefer virgins or non-virgins? Doesn't matter.

13. Describe yourself in 10 good words. laid back, sarcastic, free spirited, open minded, trustworthy, faithful, ambitious, optimistic, funny, loveable.

14. What song makes you feel amazing when you are in a relationship? General Public- Tenderness. hahaha. I'm a sap.

15. What makes you feel horrible after a break-up? Anything related to Valentines Day. I've never liked it, even in a relationship. Any sappy love songs....seeing things that remind me of them...