I was seeing this woman and everything was good between us on Tuesday morning, but on Tuesday night she ignored me and then sent me an email telling me she did not want to see me again.
Update: Well talking to her is out of the question because she has not said anything to me since then. we were actually falling in love and then bam she turned.
10 months ago
Its up to her what she wants to do!! with in the past 12 hours she could of heard somethings about you and thought about it and thought that she probably didn't think she wants to be with you and she could just go on with life and find somebody better!! but there are a lot of other things that could be running through her mind that she hadnt talk to you in that long of a time!! you don't just fall in love within on day if you just met somebody unless you new them for a long time and then you guys decided to get to together and she how it would work out and well it looks like it is not going to good!!
What I think you should do is if you have an email address and so does she and you no hers write her a letter and tell her how you feel!!! ask her whats wrong and etc..If she doesn't respond to you then just let it go for awhile don't call her text her or even email her leave it go for awhile and let her have her space and let her think about it!!! She if she comes around! If not then just move on there are other nice and the just right ones out there!! Good Luck!!
There could be many reasons as to why she'd want to stop talking... Perhaps she is afraid of commitments or she's unsure of what you might want out of the situation or she's unsure of herself. I'd try talking to her, ask her whats up and why she wouldn't want to see you again. Communication is important, even more so if you want to be with her eventually.
I'm a bit guilty of doing this a few weeks ago to a guy I really did like & felt instant chemistry with. My reason is that I was unsure of what he wanted and I guess I'm a bit of a commitment phobe. Now being away from him and not talking to him, I regret it and I realized that I miss him. We've talked very little since then & now it's just awkward.
Just go for it, if she's worth it, show her that you care about her and want to know what's going on with her and how she's feeling.
A. She heard something about you that she didn't like
B. She thought you were getting annoying
C. Her boyfriend/ex-boyfriend called her and asked to see her or something
D. She thinks your like a stalker/ type person and doesn't want anything to do with you.
E. She doesn't like you and she wants to stay away from you so it will not lead you on at all.
There are so many possibilities. Ask her why she doesn't want anything to do with you and say you want the truth because a lie won't help you at all. If she just says " I just don't want to talk to you anymore" or something like that.. then DROP IT! It means she really doesn't want anything to do with you.
Best way to deal with a situation like this is to not call her or have any communication with her. If she calls, ignore her. As much as you might want to call her every hour, or pick up the phone as soon as she calls, DONT. By doing this, you take control of the situation. If she never calls, or gets a hold of you, then f*** her, it's not meant to be and you walk away with your dignity. Women are f***ing crazy. They do shit that nobody will ever understand, that's why they're called women.
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