Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been having some problems.. He will call me when I'm out with my friends and expect me to talk to him. I'll talk to him for a few minutes, but I tell him I have to go, I just believe that it's disrespect when people are on the phone when they have company .. It's really nothing against him, and he knows that.. I usually will turn my phone off because he won't stop calling, texting, and leaving voicemails crying to me and throwing pity parties. He calls it "anxiety": and says I don't understand. He always apologizes and says he'll change, but that hasn't happened.. This goes on every day that I go out with friends, and it doesn't even matter WHO the friends are.. I don't know what to do, it's really hard trying to please him and all of my friends at the same time.. And it makes it even harder because other than when I'm out, he treats me like a princess. He's an amazing guy and he's definitely in love with me as much as I am him, if not more.. I just wish he'd stop freaking out over nothing..
Update: And before you tell me to talk to him about it, I have. He even tells me that I don't deserve it.. Should I get him some help with this 'anxiety'? God, I'm so confused!
7 months ago
Time for an ultimatum. of course, it depends how much more you're willing to put up with. obviously he's never going to change. you already know that. so it's just a matter of time...
I won't put up with that.. It's insane.. If he doesn't change eventually, it won't last, I know.. But maybe it really is an anxiety issue, maybe he could get some help? - 7 months ago
Well do you ever go out with him and your friends?...If not maybe you should do it so he could get an idea of what you do when you go out with your friends..Or try to get him some help..But if he really LOVES you then he is right to be jealous I don't blame him because when you love someone you want to be with them 24/7!!!!But also he should give you your space and trust you as much as you trust him..So if you dont know what else to do just get him some help..Before he goes crazy or does something Stupid!!If you see that he won't change then just drop it and move on..Because you REALLY DONT DESERVE THAT!!! Hope that I could help..Good Luck!!
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