I cheated on my boyfriend back in Nov. It meant nothing and was the biggest mistake of my life. We've been together on and off 10 years now.In 2002 I got married with another guy and when it didn't work out he had me back,,2005 after I found out he cheated on me and I forgave him bec. I married somebody else before.He works abroad and be away every 6 weeks and last year I cheated on him with a co-worker and He discovered the break up letter just last night and didn't say anything about it 'till I saw it on the table this morning. I said sorry and admitted it and I asked him what he think right now and he said he is not sure and he will think it over..He said he still love me but can't trust me anymore. . How can I change his mind and make him love like he did once before. I miss the man I fell so deeply in love with and I only want to be with him. I have no interests in any other man what so ever. Please help...If you can...
Unfortunately, is not like you can just tell him, I will never do it again, and he will believe it. Next time you have a talk with him, tell him that you believe this is the worst mistake that you have done in your life, and you're really sorry about it, and that no other man compares to him (even cheaters love to hear that), and well, hope for the best.
You need to make him believe that you will never do it again. Whatever it takes if that's what you really want. The good thing is he cheated on you and you forgave him. Ask him if he thinks you should trust him, in a nice way if you can. You then can basically use anything he says in your defense as well. If you ask him if he'd ever do it again, and he says no, then ask him why he wouldn't trust you never to do it again. Remind him no ones perfect.
You are going to have to give it some time. Tell him honestly that you are sorry and you will work on the relationship. The trust has been broken on both sides now. You will have to prove to each other now.
(Age:30 to 35)
When: 10 months ago
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