I've been seeing this guy for three years now. He had a girlfriend he recently broke up with. Yes, I understand about the whole cheating thing. Its long and complicated, let's leave it at that. Any way we have never told each other that we love one another. The thing is I do love him very much, but I'm terrified of telling him. Is it possible for a man to maintain a physical relationship long term like this and not love the woman he's with? He always tells his friends nice things about me, sticks up for me, etc. He just seems on the fence about us. He had his heart badly broken a few years ago and has serious trust issues. I don't know if its that, or if he doesn't feel for me what I do for him. How do I know? I would hope after three years he wouldn't just be using me.
From what I can tell, he doesn't love you. I mean, if he loved you why would he be with this other girl and just have sex with you? Yes he is single now, so whats stopping him from getting together with you? It's because he doesn't love you, that sucks to hear but c'mon, hun. If he really liked you he would have told you and would want to start a relationship. If you think he has trust issues its because he's been cheating on his girlfriend for 3 yrs with you. Imagine how you would feel being together with him? Would you trust him? What makes you so much special than the other girl that he publicly said was his girlfriend but won't do the same to you.
Karma. I hope he doesn't love you. Sorry, but you put yourself in that position by being the other woman. And that is what you are and will be considered to him and his friends. He was using using you or you would have had the girlfriend title. So, do you have that title yet? I hate when girls are the other woman, yet wonder why he isn't in love with them or not treating you as well as he did her. Sorry, but you posted it. I don't like cheaters or the other woman. Just me.
He definitely doesn't love you why would he of being with this other girl then? when somebody loves someone they want only them and nobody else. I'm not being mean but I'm just trying to be honest here your his bit on the side you must see that and you mustn't let yourself be his bit on the side !! find yourself a nice guy who is committed to you and only you that's the least you deserve!! :) x
(Age:30 to 35)
When: 10 months ago
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