I've been involved with this one girl for going on 8 months now. I really do belive she is the first girl that I truly love, she is my world and my best friend. But only sometimes are my feelings truly given back to me by her. The thing is that she says she loves me and has all these feelings for me. The problem is that she's never had a relationship as intense as ours, so she's unsure of her feelings. She says that she doesn't really know what she wants and is unsure if I'm the guy for her.
This leads to my problem, she broke things off with me to pursue things with another guy. She tells me that she's doing this for me and this is the only way she will be sure about us. We still talk regularly and just yesterday hung out. She still tells me how she loves me and even thinks about marrying me. It really sucks because I tell her how I'm the one for her and she goes and tells me that if I really belive that I wouldn't go out with anyone else. So for the last 2 months I haven't, haven't even done anything close that would even constitue a date. Everybody says I should move on and sometimes I feel that I should. If she truly loved me wouldn't she want to be with me? So I don't know if I should tell her that we need to stop it or if I should just stand my ground in hopes that she'll see that I'm the one.
cherry-bubbles
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
Well, are you sure you want this? A counfusing relationship where both of you are stumped? Think long and hard and don't just think about what it would be like together. Maybe try and start dating again. No girlfriends, just dates. You'll find a new special someone.
sweetvalle03
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
It doesn't seem like she's ready even if you do love her. Maybe she's not in the same place. She might come back but maybe not - it sounds like she's keeping you on the sidelines while she plays the game. She does have feelings for you though! Go out with someone maybe an ex is looking your way? If she cares she'll automatically get jealous and come back.
ladyredbone
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Move on....it seems like she's not really ready for a relationship let her do her and find someone that you think will truly care for you and won't do that to you. She's not worth it because no one deserves to be treated like that.
I have done a lot of stuff for my girlfriend and when I say I love you she sometimes says ya or sure. I really don't know what to do. I don't want to...
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(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
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