My girlfriend just turned 30 this past weekend and I am going to be 26 in a few weeks. We celebrated her 30th birthday in Vegas and had a very drunken time. On the night of her birthday we partied very hard, legally. We were very drunk together at a club. Towards the end of the night, when she was supposedly blacked out, she went out on the dance floor and danced on a platform with a random guy. A few seconds went by and I started taking pictures of them. Too much time went on so I walked up besides them. THEN HE KISSED HER AND SHE DIDN'T PULL AWAY UNTIL I PUSHED HER OFF THE PLATFORM!!!
I am very hesitant towards committing to her. She has said other things in the past that have been degrading to me and has made me furious at times. Also, as we were in Vegas, guys were gaulking at her all day due to her fake breasts. I didn't mind since she wasn't being flirtatious back to them. However, one time we were walking together and a table of guys all checked her out as I was walking next to her. She winked and smiled back. I called her out right away and she said she was being polite EXCUSE ME!!! BEING POLITE TO WHO? EVERYONE BUT YOUR BOYFRIEND THAT IS TAKING YOU TO VEGAS FOR YOUR 30TH!!!!
a bit of background on her. She just turned 30, got fake breasts about a year ago, had liposuction 3 months ago (which turned out horrible by the way), and can't stand that have a few girls that I consider best friends of mine and our relationships are completely platonic. My girlfriend seems very insecure and I am very untrustworthy now since this incident. I do not feel as though I can trust her anymore nor do I feel as though I can commit to her.
Do I break up right away and if so, how?
What is the best way to approach her about the subject to find out how she really feels about me?
It sounds to me like you really do not like who she is...honestly ask yourself why you are judging her actions so much? Why are you insecure about a table of strange guys, but feel that she should be secure with you having such close relationships with other women? If you feel threatened by a bunch of strangers then I don't believe you feel secure about the way she feels about you .It also seems you are in a way putting her down to try to make yourself not like who she is so you don't feel so hurt. I could be way off base, but that is what I see and I think it is time for you to move on.
You can talk to her. Talking works with women. But you see, We all start relationships to feel good and happy, Not to make our lives any worse or to hurt ourselves. So if after the talk you still felt bad about it, Why waste your life and time? Oh and You can't expect anyone to behave when they are drunk. Right? GOOD LUCK
I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a guy I couldn't trust. If she can't win your trust back, I think you should try to find someone else you can have faith in.
It sounds as though you don't really like her, or the way she acts.
Your styles don't match. She's naturally flirtatious, but you don't like her giving a group of people a wink. Her cosmetic surgery was designed with the beholder in mind--she had it done because she wanted more attention from men.
You were drunk in Sin City, and it sounds like she was so drunk that she had no idea whom she was kissing. I think it could have been anyone, with the same result.
All signs point to yes, break up with her. You're young enough that you shouldn't have difficulty finding someone with all of her characteristics and more (even without the aid of cosmetic surgery).
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