So we've been together for about one month but he says it feels right etc we love spending time together, he always calls, texts , and he loves to hangout with me and he always kisses me and holds me but the past 2 days he doesn't call as much never texts hangs out less with me and prefers to play video games and hangout with his guy friends ....
I don't know whats up .... he recently told me he's falling in love with me so I thought everything was amazing ... he's quiting smoking so maybe that has something to do with it ?
i don't know what to do to make him be crazy about me like he use to any tips?
Update: We just broke up thanks to all.
10 months ago
Absence makes the heart grow fonder...guys pull away from time to time its a natural thing we need to take a breather so we don't loose ourselves totally in a lady.especially if he has gotten so fond of you...guys have to stay strong and not to be over consumed so that when he does come back he can give more of himself....
Its just been a couple days, I think I would make sure he knows that your there for him and would love to spend some time with him when he is ready. Just continue being the girl that he is falling in love with. Don't change and don't over do it and call him a ton, he might just need a breather and quitting smoking is tough and can screw up his behavior for a little while! I would try to be patient, even though its hard!
He probably likes you a lot.. but watch out and give him time with his friends. Because if you don't give him that time.. he will think he has to be with you and it will scare him.. more than you think. He will think that he's on a tight leash and guys don't like that. don't ask him whats wrong.. just say he seems a little upset and ask if he needs you to do anything. maybe go skating or something fun with him to get his mind off quitting smoking. good luck! Guys don't like knowing they always have to call and things.. have you tried calling him or making plans?