I am interested in this girl which I know for around 2 months, and she is like the most amazing girl I have ever met and very nice and sincere as a person.
I bought her donuts on three occasions because I know she likes donuts. I think she has the most amazing smile which melts my heart totally . I was hoping to make her smile by buying those things that she likes, but it turns out that she felt uncomfortable, at the beginning she said to make things clear she just want to be just friends and not more.
I told her that I just want to know her more and to make her smile by doing things sweet for her, and I wanted to sing her favorite song to her on valentine's day , but she said she doesn't want me to sing it for only her and on valentine's day..
she asked me to be just a normal friend will do , and said but I can think of her as my best friend and said that perhaps she and I not close enough its weird when I give her things.. really don't know whether is this a hint to say that we can only be best friends and not more in the future..or she means that she wans to start from friends to closer friends and slowly ...
Update: After that I told her that I know she doesn't want to give mi false hope but I really want to know her more as a friend now ,because I find her very amazing. Ask her whether is it possible to know her more as friends. She say she think it's possible.
10 months ago
If she isn't interested, move on. How can you really want someone knowing that all they are wanting is friendship? I would become so frustrated. I think it would eat me up inside.
I would continue just being friends if it grows into more great, but I wouldn't count on it! She said to you not to do Romantic things for her so it normally means she isn't interested in you in that way and you deserve someone who does!
Dude, if you continue like that, I can bet you any money that soon you will be called, 'creepy';
You have to take things slowly, and if you're interested in a girl that doesn't seem to be interested in you, the only hope you have is to move in slowly!!!!! I think you pretty much killed your chances by asking to sing the song.....you have to learn not to be pushy; now if the girls are running to you, well, that's a different story; but if you're going up to them, you need to learn some 'game', before you start scaring every girl away. Harsh man, but you must be told before you screw yourself some more.
I feel that you are kind of right in the way , I guess maybe I misinterpreted her signs in the beginning was that when I told her I wanted to sing for her a song . she actually told me her favorite song , I thought she was interested . somehow she isnt - 10 months ago
It seems pretty clear, that she values your friendship, but she doesn't want a relationship and to hope for something more, is just wasting your time. Try to remain friends and just move on to other girls, there are plenty more out there...
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