I've bee in an 8 year relationship. We had our problems but we had a dream relationship. Well, on Thurs. Dec. 7th my fiancee told me that I was the Love of her life and that she wants to marry me and she was crying...I told her the same in return. All of our friends said that we had the dream relationship also. Well on Dec. 10th she left me. She said after an argument about showy clothes (she wears showy clothes) and said that I control her and that she should have broken up years ago and that she happier alone doing her thing. I'm lost because for 8 years she told me weekly and even daily that I'm her dream man and she wants to get married to me and that there's no other like me. I truly have given my all to this relationship. It's been 5 months and I'm still fighting for her and believing us but she's not budging. Up until a week a go she'd been nothing but mean to me but a week ago she e-mailed me, "Happy Easter" and that her company has an office in my City and what a funny coincidence that is... What do I do? I've done everything for the relationship in it and since we've been apart. I just need honest advice.
It sounds like you're doing everything you can to get her back. If you were ever controlling - even if you never were - you have to figure out a way to prove that you aren't controlling. (That sentence came out wrong but you get the idea :) You get lots of credit for still trying after 5 months. She probably read an article or heard something from her friends about controlling relationships and freaked out. That, on top of getting ready to walk down the aisle made her question everything. Since you were together for 8 years, she may have wanted to see what independence feels like. The single life always looks glamorous when you're on the other side. It's possible that she'll realize her mistake and come back. If I were you, I'd talk to her face to face and give it one last shot. If she's still refusing to give you guys a second chance, it may be time to move on.
(Age:36 to 45)
When: More than a year ago
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