We went out on 2 dates and I told her I was a virgin (which I was). We had sex a couple times but she said she didn't want a relationship but also said she never felt this way about someone before. We haven't seen each other since then and she keeps putting me off when I ask her if she wants to hang out. So I asked her to be my girl and she said she wanted to see other guys. I said ok cause I don't want to lose her so early.
Is she just being nice? or does she really want to be with me?
I agree with Lesae. She did use you. I'm really sorry. Some people are like that. No one deserves to be used. But I'm really sorry for you but you have to move on. The same thing happened to me so yeah. It didn't turn out well.
Honestly, after she told me she wanted to see other people, I didn't even ask her to be my girlfriend yet, I said "like a progressive customer, it was fun ty. she texted me back saying we could still go on dates and hang out and stuff. I don't feel for her - 10 months ago
She used you for sex. I hate to say it like that. She took your virginity. Yes. Girls do it to. I would not bother her anymore. You are a man now!! Go out there and meet some new girls.
Can I tell her I used her to take my virginity? she said she liked me and I don't feel right saying this but I actually felt like I didn't want to hurt her feelings! I don't know what to do if she gets clingy. I've already been hurt by empty promises from other girls. - 10 months ago
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