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I really have no idea what a soul mate is, but I found my ideal female companion. I think every person experiences this differently, so is not fair to say, when you meet the person you would know it. However, it seems females do have this tendency, and that maybe cause they tend to be more connected with their emotions, and also they are more intuitive.
When I worked at a retirement center and I met the couples that were married for 30, 40, 50 years, and I loved asking them how they met and if they knew right away they would be married for so long; needless to say, most every woman answered with, 'as soon as I saw him, I knew he was the one', or 'i just knew he was the one cause I had a feeling. '
The men on the other hand, were not as 'romantic', and their replies were more logical. However, a couple did say the same---oh I knew when I saw her she would be my wife. As for my case, after one serious relationship, and a few years of dating, I finally honed down what was it that I wanted, and then I finally met the person that matched my criteria, and well, so far so good. Can't say I'll be married for 50 years, but we shall see!
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