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Justthinkingaloud (Age:18 to 24)     When: 6 months ago
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What's something a guy could do to show he loves you? Anything at all. And why?
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6 months ago
i want a guy who can run that extra mile just to prove it to me that he loves me so freaking much..i m telling this because I have talked to couple of guys and dated few..they all tend to give up after 2-3 tries..any thing in impressing, showing love and affection, and most importantly when they break up and come back to me they try just 2-3 times and if I don't reply or give them one word answers they think I am not interested...this is not true!
i just want to see how far he can go to get me..how much is he willing to put in effort to persue me..this goes other way around too...i wanna know why guys come to a conclusion so quick without even trying hard enough?

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  • Question Asker
    5 months ago
    I do appreciate your concern though. I just feel getting far away is the only thing that will help me find myself, get over my ex, and get over a lot of other things that have happened in my life. I sound a kinda dumb because I know there's people that have had worse lives than me but I have gone through a lot. Like Scientology camp (prison), my mom trying to commit suicide many times over petty sh*t, loosing a man who was like a second father, and more. I do thank you for talking with me though
  • Question Asker
    5 months ago
    And as far as jobs, I live in such a small town there pretty much is none. And any that pop up get taken by people who have lived in the town longer. Plus my job experiences don't exactly do me much good in a small town. I decided I want to stay through my dads operation and make sure he's OK. But my thoughts on what to do after are pretty much going and joining the peace core to get away from everything. Was thinking military but the only friend I got left over the years talked me out of that.
  • Question Asker
    5 months ago
    I do understand what your saying. But it's just too hard to be around what's sapposed to be my home. My dad took back his girlfriend and she lives with us, and my dad doesn't want to leave her because he doesn't want to start over and find another relationship. My mom knows my situation but she's a bitch and doesn't care about anyone but herself. I've lost my exes number and havnt talked to her in months. The last contact I did have with her was her boyfriend threatening me.
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  • Answerer
    5 months ago
    i know its easier said than done...but honestly just be there for your dad ..he needs you more than anyone right now...i know you are there for him..but just for now put all your worries aside and focus on him and look for jobs online like try craigslist work at some grocery store or gas station for now..i am sure you will get a job soon! don't give up please!
  • Answerer
    5 months ago
    omggg I know its very difficult time for you right now...dont think all this crazy garbage...can you again talk to your mom and explain her your situation may be she can sign the car on your name and give it to you? call up your friends and tell them to come help you out this weekend or something...and just block your ex and your dad's ex number on both of your cell phones please! I know its a very tough decision but you need to look at your situation as of now..set your priorities!
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    But I'm glad your doing OK and thank you for putting my dad in your prayers. And I honestly don't know why I put the other parts down. I'm just going crazy and feel like I'm, like I said done. Almost just want to grab a bag of a few things I may need and start walking off, where I don't know.
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    Have no friends. I'm 7 hrs away from my home, the other side of the state. I'm depressed, furious and sad all in one. And I don't even know what these next word mean to me but me drain just keeps telling me I feel done. And like I said I don't know what I mean when when I say I feel done. I don't even have a car because mines in my moms name and she refuses to sign it over, so it sits in the backyard rotting. All I want to do is drink but I can't even afford that...
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    Honestly I'm shiity. My dad keeps taking back his girlfriend who stresses him out and argues with him, when the doc said stress could kill him. And I can't stand her, don't want to see or hear her voice, because it makes me sick to my stomach. I still have some strong feelings for my ex that drive me crazy every couple nites. My moms a bitch who f***ed me over my whole life and I refuse to talk to her anymore. I live in a small town that I hate, and can't find a job here...
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    oh yeah don't worry ..make sure you let him know that everything is gonna be okay and your always there for him:). .ur dad is in my prayers don't worry your good;) ha ha ...i am doing well ...its the same he's coming and checking up periodically lol...how are you?
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    He's doing ok... He has to go into surgery on 12-12-12. And he's getting a little scared. And I'm doing OK, just making sure my dad stays well. Thanks for asking. How are you?
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    hey hows your dad doing now? everything good with you?
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    hahah ohhh don't worry you are all good! thanks for the input! yeah well he denied that he was bipolar..and said I turned him into a jerk lol..u think he will come back again and talk to me? because I never saw him online after that day and he ended the convo with an "ok".
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    Oh and orry it took a while to answer your question I had to rewrite a couple times cause after I sent first time it didn't go through.
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    Just answered it lol... And that deffinately sounds bipolar. He may need to get on some meds, they actually did help my ex start getting a lot better than when I first met her.
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    omggg I think my ex was bipolar tooo! he was happy one minute the next minute he had bad anger issues! I think its better to stay away from those kind of people...sooner or later they will know their consequences what they indulged themselves into! I am waiting on the answer for my question...:\
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    She was 22 at the time, and bipolar which I actually helped her with a lot seeing as my mom is too. But my mom is way bad, I can't even talk to her anymore. And my ex will admit I helped her a lot with it. And yes I do still love my ex but like I said I knew we weren't right for each other so I left.
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    hahaah no worries I could relate so much to your situation..and I know I become like you when I talk to someone because I do want my questions to be answered without anyone getting annoyed by me...its all cool:) just don't think too much about her trust me she wasn't worth your time when you put so much effort in the relationship to keep it alive! goodluck! you will find someone as great as you who will love you for what you are not mend you into something she wants you to be!
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    Yes I will answer your question. And I gotta thank you this is the first time I've been able to have this conversation like this with someone, without them getting annoyed or telling me to go take a shot.
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    you were really into her I can see that..but you should be glad its over because you deserve some one so much better! she is not even worth talking at this point..YOU DESERVE WAY BETTER! how old is this chick? sounds like a teenager to me?
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    Wth! she is working at pizza hut and demanding you to get a better job?!?!? she sounds stupid! its been 11.5 months I'd say move on...let it go she was materialistic as you can tell...and I am sure a she was shallow as well... do not waste your time thinking about her in making yourself more upset..meanwhile can you answer my question please? link
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    Oh and thinking of what you said about your ex and how he would go out with friends instead of with you... Whenever I wasn't working I was with her and would take her places with me.
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    Yeah I kinda figured that out after I found out it was a guy from her work who she would hang out with. The stupid thing is too they work at f***ing pizza hut.
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    wow that's very cruel and harsh on her part...it clearly shows she never really paid that much attention to you when you two were together..i feel you..you know when someone tries to change you..they are not satisfied with you correct? meanwhile, they expect that change to take place in few days timeframe and if that doesn't happen they slowly start to fall out ..its a natural process so she did not suddenly change her mind about u..she was preplanning about the other guy while dating you..
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    A bunch of other things, and no job. I basically had $5000 saved up.
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    I gotta start out with I was living with my dad while we were not together. And my dad was getting ready to move to the other side of the state. But I did try talking to her and I wasn't able to convince her before she started talking about this new guy she was thinking of seeing. And then a week after she told me that they did start going out. So I just moved with my dad since I had nowhere else to stay and little money after paying for Christmas presents, rent at her dads and food at her dads
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    said he was just checking on me if I was doing ok..he never said he wanted me back..so I just told him I don't care about him (of course I was mad ) but nevertheless, her taking only a week's time is a little bit too soon to come to conclusion..and doesn't she realize you were doing all this to make her happy? and it was for her only? did you try talking to her?
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    wow that's a very packed schedule...actually I was in the same situation with my ex where we barely had time to talk to each other..and in one week we literally exchanged 2 texts and that's about it..but I was still there with him just demanded more of his time because on the weekends he would hangout with his friends rather and chill with them. I was willing to cooperate but he said he said he is having a fallout and so I left him alone and did not contact him..he did come back to talk to me but
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    But my catering job was $10 hr with over time and I would work 10-15 hr days every day normally 2 to 3 weeks at a time, then have a couple weeks off
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    I didn't actually leave I just told her I needed time to get my head straight. Then after a week she said forget it and packed my stuff and told me to come get it.
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    hmm...so I see it now..she was basically trying to mold you..and making you to become a stable person with a better job...sorry I am a little confused..who left who? I know she was not happy with your job...and you were stressed and depressed..?
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    We were living together at her dads saving up for a place, and I left to try to make myself that 9-5 person, and get out that wild side of working concerts. Never slept around though. And we did get along really well other than that. But I do see your point and thank you for that.
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    she left you for the job you had? that is just plain bullsh*t..she cannot see how much time and energy you are putting in your job? wow she is really appreciative...seriously your better off without her! if you are not happy doing anything and makes you gain stress and depression dude its not worth it!
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    And I did have a good job for a while that I liked which was catering backstage at events and concerts but she didn't like it. I was either gone too much in the day for weeks on end or home too much and she thought I needed a real job. So I tried the average store clerk and even office thing but couldn't take it and that's what brought on the stress and depression.
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    well wats the point of doing it after she's gone? always rmr never change for anyone unless that change is gonna make you a better person!
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    well in that case I am sure she is more considered about the new guy...and probably not even thinking about you...i know sh*t happens..but sometimes you just gotta deal with it..i know regrets makes us value what we have lost and hopefully we never make those mistakes again when something good knocks on our door again..i know it hurts and its easier said than done..but the sooner you accept that its over the faster you will recover!
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    Because it depresses me being held down doing something I hate. And that's the kinda guy she kept saying she wanted and needed.
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    Yes I have. She moved on after a couple months and is still with the guy. And during those 2 months I kept in contact and told her I still wanted to be with her. I just needed to find myself and and try becoming the person she deserved. We broke up 11 1/2 months ago. I don't know how she's doing now because her new boyfriend forbids us from talking. I knew I wasn't right for her though because I'm the free spirit type who has trouble with your average 9-5 job...
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    well that's what you think...did you try finding out how she's doing and all? us girls usually say the opposite and want guys to read our minds...idk why we do it but that's how we are I guess..lol so in a case of a girl whatever she says means the opposite..lol
  • Question Asker
    6 months ago
    That's not true I've known guys and have been one of the guys who try to go the extra mile to get a girl. The main things that guys like us give up is after do much trying our confidence in the matter breaks down and we give up. Me not giving up is what got me my last girl friend who I loved and still love dearly. We just ended up not right for each other, or well I knew I was not the best guy for her and left because of stress knowing that. And I hope I did leave for her better and she's happy.
  • Answerer
    6 months ago
    yeah that's what I thought too..see us women we don't really think that way...lol I guess the next thing that comes to the mind is better communication skills and perhaps a better understanding of each other in the relationship!
  • rager69
    6 months ago
    I am not gonna lie.. But for guys... It's really a Yes or No answer for us... There is no "Maybe" for us. Very few will go that extra mile.

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  • anon1192
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    anon1192
    5 months ago
    Just spending time with me.

    In my opinion, we can judge what people care about by where they spend their time. I think people always make time for the things that they really care about.
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    • Question Asker
      5 months ago
      Good point. Thank you for your answer.
  • kia58
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    kia58
    6 months ago
    A guy who loved me would make me notice he did, if he worried about me. If he tried to protect me. If he worked on himself to be stronger for both our sakes. If he gave his all into upholding his principles, so he was sure I would trust him. If he was not afraid to yell it to the world. If he allowed me to be weak and silly around him. If he hid me when I'm broken. If he stood up to me when I'm doing wrong, no matter how afraid he might be of loosing me.

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      6 months ago
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  • Xuande
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    Xuande
    6 months ago
    also, spontaneous affection; a hug, shoulder run, nuzzle... never underestimate simple physical gestures.

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      6 months ago
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  • wolfberry
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    wolfberry
    6 months ago
    for me,when we quarrel with each other,he will be patient with me and never talk to me in a high voice.it'll makes me feel he loves me very much and cares about me

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      6 months ago
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  • kdizzleforizzle91
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    kdizzleforizzle91
    6 months ago
    Actually find a way to spend some time with me, keep promises, and not play games. If something's not right between us, he should mention it to me because I might not always know. I'll extend these same things back to him. Just some respect and good communication is really enough.

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  • anonymouslydating
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    anonymouslydating
    6 months ago
    Playful and followed through with his promises.

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      6 months ago
      Thanks for your answer
  • toulouse
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    toulouse
    6 months ago
    respect honesty genuineness transparency compassion care physical affection without shame... and the rest is just my knowing because when someone loves you. really loves , AND you are open open to it. you know. and if you're not open to it, you do not deserve it anyways.So its of no consequence if do not know.

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    • Answerer
      6 months ago
      no problem.

      btw, id expect the same from myself towards him. I wouldn't be compatable with someone who did not value those things/ appreciate them.
    • Question Asker
      6 months ago
      Thank you for your answer
  • PoeticNinja
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    PoeticNinja
    6 months ago
    Understanding, opening up (being expressive), and A LOT of sex.

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      6 months ago
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  • bubbiexo
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    bubbiexo
    6 months ago
    Listen to me and actually interpret what I'm saying. Give me my space when I want it. Remember something when I tell you.

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    • Question Asker
      6 months ago
      Thank you again :)
    • Answerer
      6 months ago
      Anytime. Just be yourself and you'll be fine.
    • Question Asker
      6 months ago
      And thank you for your answer bubbiexo
  • phil2
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    phil2
    6 months ago
    do things with her

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      6 months ago
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    Anonymous User
    6 months ago
    Taking good care of me when I am sick,cooking for me,pulling up the blanket for me,helping me to choose stuffs suitable for me when we go shopping,giving me a call everyday,replying to my messages in less than 24 hours,not forgetting anniversaries,helping me to do housework,spending quality time with me,standing up for me and a lot of cuddling,kissing and sex.

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    • Question Asker
      6 months ago
      Yes you are. I wish I could of or will eventually find a good relationship like yours.
    • Answerer
      6 months ago
      Oh,forgot to tell you that my husband's my first boyfriend.We are together for 21 years and married 12 years so I am at least qualified to offer my advice here,right?Hehe.
    • Question Asker
      6 months ago
      Thank you again and you must make a great couple
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    • Answerer
      6 months ago
      Haha,thanks! I do likewise for him too.Relationship must be two way in order for it to be always in a win-win situation,right?I wish you true happiness. :)
    • Question Asker
      6 months ago
      Sounds like you found yourself a wonderful man. I'm very happy for you
    • Answerer
      6 months ago
      You are most welcomed.And my husband washes and fills up my water bottle everyday before I go to work.I am a contented kitten :)
    • Question Asker
      6 months ago
      :)
    • Question Asker
      6 months ago
      Thank you for your answer
    • Answerer
      6 months ago
      We have a great marriage so I just want to share with the question asker and eveybody as I want others to be happy too. :)
    • Answerer
      6 months ago
      My husband is doing this for me everyday. :)
    • PoeticNinja
      6 months ago
      Call you everyday? O_o Geezus.
 

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