Wife is always wanting to leave

I kind of understand this . My ex(that I still have extremely deep feelings for) has gone thru this before his divorce, I'm sorry to say that and I hope this doesn't happen to you. When he was going thru this with her, he would confide in me about this. My question to you is- was she actually in love with you when you got married? Did you get married because she was pregnant? Maybe she felt obligated if that was the situation. So, needless to say, she divorced him and he was devastated, but there I was for him and we fell in love, but when this happened, he panicked and more or less left ME heartbroken because I gave him so many years , giving him the comfort he needed to get thru. (which I don't think he's over her, even tho he says he is). But anyway, my advice to you is to ask her why she married you and maybe if/when she gives you an honest answer, you may be able to seek help. It may not be too late.So, do this NOW, so it doesn't get worse, and please,please do not USE AN INNOCENT AND YOUR BEST FRIEND JUST TO 'GET U THRU THIS' BECAUSE SHE PROBABLY WON'T DESERVE IT! I truly wish you the best-you sound like a good guy.

7 year itch. Maybe she is bored. Have you tried to talk her into going on a date with just you? Go on a long weekend? A late honeymoon cruise? She is bored with you and needs a pick me up. I think should suggest counseling or maybe an activity you guys need time together not apart. Going out with friends or going to book club once a month is one thing, but 3 times a month is looking for something/someone else. She is a wife and a mother. She needs to realize that was her choice not the kids. I don't know your wife but she sounds very selfish.

Sounds like a bad situation in your marriage. You had better talk to her about it if you really want to save your marriage. Right now, she could walk at any time, leaving you alone. It won't get any better unless you confront the problem head on. Maybe consider some marriage counseling?

Do you go out? Take a week trip with the boys to give her space?