So I've been dating this older guy for about a year now. He's been acting distant from me but still calls me baby and still talks to me. He doesn't really want to hold my hand anymore and plays mind games! Like I was about to get out of the car after gym and I was waiting for him to say "OK I'll call you when I shower and head over to your place" but then he looks at me in the eyes with a straight face and he just says "k, I think we're gonna call it a nite. Bye" and then I'm like ok? And he's like "I'll shower and head over to your place" like messing. And just does stupid stuff like that. We get a long but there are times that he tries to trick me into stuff buy saying something playfully but then say the real thing later. Or threatening to hang up!
we randomly stopped saying love you to each other at night every night for the past 4 nites. And I bring up why he's been acting like then and he says. "you don't want to say it first" so he won't say it. But how can I say it when he hangs up so quickly. Excuses? Advice!
Update: He's playing with my mind. We had a talk about this situation he told me he doesn't know if he wants to continue the relationship. But changes the subject. He said he wants to think about but still acts normal and comes to my place, and is affectionate.
10 months ago
He has lost his feelings for you. I would just leave him alone for awhile. Maybe if you are not around he will miss you. I hate when guys can't tell you their real feelings and they toy with you. He is being a coward. Take control of the situation and turn the tables on this guy. Show him you can live without his old behind and make him feel like he lost the best person ever. He will call.
It sounds like he's losing interest. That started happening with my boyfriend too then he dumped me :(. Maybe just give him space. Get a little more distant so he has time to miss you ya know. Don't act different just don't be as available.
I would have to say he is probably playing mind games with you and really isn't interested in you much anymore since he's acting like that. Or maybe he just ain't as crazy in love about you anymore. Don't sound good since he's acting like he is, maybe he is seeing someone on the side. I don't want to worry you but it just doesn't sound good.
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