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Trying to avoid boyfriend.... what?

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irenedsv (Age:Under 18) When: 5 months ago

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Okay so something in my mind is telling me to go with my boyfriend but there is this rush inside of me that is making me avoid my boyfriend. I don't know why but anyone got any ideas? Why is this happening? :(

Thanks guys/girls :)

Update: Guys Thank you for helping. Now I know why I was avoiding him. And its NONE of the answers. Here is what happened yesterday:
5 months ago

Update: We were at a normal party, no alcohol.Then we started talking all of the ppl, we were in beds but there was only one big bunk bed which was mine and another girl's. 5 months ago

Update: she came down and he came up. We started making out on the bed when suddenly he got on top of me. I wasn't able to move, but my arms were around himm. He started raising my shirt and at the same time kissing my neck, but he suddenly went lower and lower when he got to my chest. he removed my bra and started kiising my boobs. I couldn't move at all but I was saying to stop. but he didn't stop cause he has ADD and he didn't take his pills. it was impossible to stop him.
Please help, I'm scared of him 5 months ago


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GAG1989

5 months ago

well you are 16, so its understandable

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- Answerer
  5 months ago
  mhm
- Question Asker
  5 months ago
  okay I will, thanks for helping though :)
- Answerer
  5 months ago
  like I said, you should see someone about this, this is out of people on gag's hands, please talk to your parents or a professional
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- Question Asker
  5 months ago
  Should I break up with him?
  cause I've been thinking about it and sure he has ADD and its hard to make them stop them and that can be one of the reasons why but like, he might have also done that on purpose... :(
- Answerer
  5 months ago
  well this is out of the reach of the people on gag. you need a counselor for this...or to tell your parents
- Question Asker
  5 months ago
  yes
- Answerer
  5 months ago
  soooo...he tried to rape you
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DeepBlue

5 months ago

You're young and possibly not ready to be in a committed relationship. It's possible you feel trapped.

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- Question Asker
  5 months ago
  i know :) I feel super free now, although I always see him starring at me in a way of... why!'? ha ha I feel free, I can finally hang out with my friends all the time :D
- Answerer
  5 months ago
  I think you did the right thing. Good luck finding a more respectful guy (or not, single life isn't so bad after all). :)
- Question Asker
  5 months ago
  Thanks :) DeepBlue I actually broke up with him :) so now I'm super freeee :)
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- Answerer
  5 months ago
  Sometimes you run into a wolf in sheep's clothing. Someone who is only nice in order to get what they want, and once they don't get it that facade quickly fades and they show their real personality. It's hard to know who will be such a person before they reveal their true colors. The important thing is to recognize it when they do and not think the person they were before must be the real them.
- Question Asker
  5 months ago
  Thanks I will. But my friend and I decided to have a little fun with him ;) but I will stay away. I have removed friendships in fb and stuff like that. But I don't get it. he was so sweet and respected me all the time. how could he bcome such a jerk and trying to frikin rape me all of a sudden! :s
- Answerer
  5 months ago
  Having ADD is not an excuse for sexual assault. Trust your gut and stay away.
- HotStud
  5 months ago
  Trust your instinct but try to understand what it is that you are avoiding about him. Why do you think you are feeling this way, and what are you feeling?
- Question Asker
  5 months ago
  ii don't know cause like I want to go out with my friends but its been already one month and like, he doesn't creep me out or anything, but like for example today when I arrived to school (cause I'm 17) I was like, go this way, pretend you are looking for a teacher or something, I don't know but something tells me to not go with him...
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HotStud

5 months ago

Go with him where? The Drive-Thru? Maybe he is a bad driver or you don't like fast food?

Maybe you don't fancy him any more? Maybe you're nuts about him? Maybe he is a bit creepy and he's creeping you out?

What do you think?

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- Question Asker
  5 months ago
  i think I have answered all of your comments at the first comment that apears
N/A

5 months ago

Must be something he did or said. So you need to figure out what it could be.

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- Question Asker
  5 months ago
  i don't know! :( I explained a little more at the last comment posted :)

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