My boyfriend went on a 19 day vacation and met someone like him on the tour. He had told me he met someone like him and that she was like me. When he got back, he showed me pictures of himself and the girl he met. And he had his arm on her waist on the pic and he also took a couple other pictures with her and his mom and aunt who also went on the trip. He ended also taking a picture of her with two other girls with wine bottles and she had a face to her that seemed like she was hiding something I don't know it's weird. But anyhow he also got drunk and stuff over there. I got emotional and didn't say anything. I feel like it was messed up because if you loved someone you wouldn't show pictures or even go there. His mom kept hinting me at dinner that he was a drunk on his trip. He even added her on facebook. Should I be concerned that he could have cheated on me?. He's my first and I don't know what I should do!. He had pictures taken where he did not have his promise ring on. Hmmm advice please! I'm too naive and blunt about relationships.
It sounds like he considered himself single for the trip. This behavior was disrespectful to you, and means that he probably doesn't care too much about your relationship. He showed you the pictures because he wanted to be up-front, but it could also be that he didn't care whether or not your feelings were hurt.
Yep, sounds to me like he cheated and showed you on purpose. If he added her on facebook it's obvious he wants to keep in touch with her and who knows what could still be going on between them. I wouldn't trust it at all. You should just flat out ask him what's going on.
If he cheated I doubt he would show you the pictures. He has just made a friend. If he keeps talking about her then I would address it. But, it could be that she is like one of the guys.
Okay so this man asked me to send him some pictures of me. He already knows what I look like since he has seen me recently and we have known each...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My first date, walk in the park wouldn't be a bad thing, Just regular clothes nothing special.Watch the moon raise up or sun go down one of the other .
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I am sensitive and that I get shy easily? hmm Maybe a little funny.