Is it possible for a man to be married and be in love with someone else?

Well do you want that on your shoulders? He is married. Back off and let him be married. If he isn't happy then he needs to get a divorce but don't cause the divorce. Step away from the relationship until he makes up his mind and can tell his wife. He made a lifetime vow to another woman. He had the opportunity to be with you and he married her. Don't talk to him anymore and let him make the choice. From one woman to another, would you be upset if the tables were turned? Now, if he is leaving his wife because of other reasons? Then the same goes. He needs to make the decision. Don't cloud his judgment.

Yes, do the right thing and don't be a home wrecker. If he really loves you, you should make him divorce his wife to pursue you! That would also prove he is serious, if he doesn't then he obviously wants you on the side. Don't lie to yourself and make excuses for yourself to justify sleeping with a married man. Talking about divorce is so easy, to actually do it is proving something.If he has kids with her, don't get involved. In my opinion he is a piece of crap and I feel really bad for his wife. I would wait for him to prove that he wants you then proceed, but have you already slept with him? You don't have to lie, its the internet.