I'm NOT asking if you would go out and look for someone to cheat on your partner with, but if someone you were very attracted to wanted a one night stand with no chance of your partner finding out...would you do it? (honestly)
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I wouldn't say I'd never do it because you never really know what you would or wouldn't do, but in the right state of mind and thinking about it clearly, I most likely wouldn't do it. I've never allowed myself to be in that type of situation which is why I've never done it, but in all honesty, I don't really know if I would or not. I just hope that I'd know better and wouldn't do it.
I have never cheated in any of my relationships. I will be honest . I have been tempted numerous times. It is real easy to be attracted to someone else other than your boyfriend. Sometimes we subconsciously compare the men we're with to the traits of someone else that we desire. Looks, intelligence, generosity, ambitious, sincerity. But we quicky remind ourselves, and put ourselves in check by saying "If I wasn't dating such and such...I would date him in a minute!" What do I do to control these urges? Harmless flirting.
Never! would you want them to do that to you? I mean how sh*tty would you feel the next day looking into the eyes of the person you "loved" its just not the right thing to do! I doesn't matter who finds out... your the one who has to live with it! -V-
ok everyones saying hell no! no way! I can't live with the guilt,but the truth is at least everyone always want to look pretty or handsome for this certain time..to be liked and admired by someone else outside the relationship is like a personal gain..Yes I would be too scared to cheat even if my boyfriend cheated on mefirst..but for the truth,i would consider keeping his number in one of my bras and wait for my relationship to fall apart(not applicable to happy relatinship) this is just me..prolly talk on the fon,and run to every time I feel bad looking at my relationship falling apart..i am stubbon,i don't let cheating in my relationship but certain moment certain reactions,and if liking someone else outside the relationship is cheating then everyone is cheating..
PS. I am not going to sleep with guy but probably fantasize about him when having sex with my man..thats the honest truth if anyone here cannot say this fact so I'm spilling it it for everyone.
This is the perfect philisophical/moral question. Similar to "If a tree falls in the forest and no on is around, does it make a soud?"
While you're protecting your partner from being hurt is important, the most important is how YOU will feel after the event. Some people are used to coming first (pardon the pun) in a relationship, putting their partners wants and needs second. But this is why marriages fail and people don't know how to have a serious relationship. We live in a instant gratification era.
Yes, I'd get away with my infidelity, but what will I have gained? A night of pleasure? My faith in having a successful and healthy relationship would be gone, and I will have to live with the guilt of what I have done. Not only will it show after time, but I may become suspicious of whenever he comes home late, takes a private call, or text messages someone I don't know. The man who cheated with me will not respect me, and I will always see myself as a "cheater".
Totally agreed. definitely not worth it, and I definitely would not like it if he did it to me, so why would I do that to him. I care for my boyfriend, and I would never do something like that to betray him - 4 months ago
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Yeah. I know the temptation would be insane, and that I'd be fighting every urge in my body, but I've been cheated on before, and I would never wish that feeling upon anyone. But I'm not naive enough to say that I wouldn't be tempted to cheat. There have been times... - 4 months ago
idk, with all I read, it seems like hardly anyone would cheat. I know that if , givin the oppertunity, it would be hard to turn down, which in itself, is a little bit cheating. because love is basically loving someone unconditionally , and if you love someone, you wouldn't think of others . the thought wouldn't even some to mind. I know, personally I'm not that strong to say without a doubt,no. so congrats to all you out there who are strong enough.
no I definately wouldn't do it because A) ew at the thought of "one night stand" B) as weird as it sounds, I haven't been attracted to anyone but Justin since I fell in love with him C) even though he wouldn't find out, our relationship is based on trust and if I did this I would never be able to forgive myself. so no, definately not.
I think it does depend on how happy I was in my relationship. When I was in a terrible relationship, I made out with another guy and went home with him (but didn't do anything below the belt). However, I realized I had to do the right thing and break up with my boyfriend. I did, and I ended up seeing the other guy for a few more weeks but in the end I realized I was better off by myself for the mean time.
to be honest it has happened to me. though my boyfriend did find out so its a bit different. the thing is, we are only human. so people might be sitting back reading this and saying something like "hell no I'm committed to my bf/gf. I love them too much to ever do that to them." But you can never really say how you would act in a situation because we all become infatuated. we all give into our moment by moment desires at times. You don't know the pull of the desire for something you know you can't have until its done and over with and too late to go back.
Honestly, no. I could never do that. I know how I feel about cheating and it would totally just be hypocritical to do it to anyone else. I'm too respectful to think twice about doing that to ANYONE. So yeah. There's my answer.
i would never do that. I have morals. I can't do it. I dont' want others to cheat on me so I wouldn't cheat on them. if someone cheated on me, they're just garbage to me
Hell no! I would never be able to get rid of the guilt. The truth would eventually come out and my partner would dump me. Then I'd be left with no one.
No WAY. That's so disrespectful ... I'd feel sick with myself afterwards and wouldn't be able to look my partner in the eye afterwards. If I was really attracted to someone else, in a real way and not just a one-night-stand way, I'd break up with the person I was seeing first.
Oh God, I would NEVER cheat. I mean if you even slightly love or respect someone how can you look them in the eye after cheating on them? The guilt alone would eat at my soul. I think cheating is the lowest thing you can do to someone, maybe that is just me though...
I definately will not... If you have a partner, that means you actually have deep feelings for that person. so even if I do go on a date with another person, I'll b feeling guilty and wrong.
I would NEVER do that. it would b so wrong. you shouldnt have to think about it if you truly love the person ur with. This type of action shows no respect for yourself and makes you seem easy. you shouldnt have sex without truly loving the person ur doing it with
I have been there... and I did end up cheating... what I though was a one night stand he tried to turn into a full blown affair/ relationship with me and my children, and he even tried to convince my kids that he was a better father for them than my current husband. DRAMA... If you would have asked me before this happened I would have said def not... but now I know all people are capable of making mistakes... even high and mighty me... I don't think people know what they are going to do until they are put in an awkward situation. I was rude and bluntly shot down every hot guy that came around, threw out some of my husband friends that I thought were hitting on me, and never could imagine it could be me... But growing up has made life clear to me and nobody is perfect... and the fact I called people names that did that, judged people worse than anyone else, and I gossiped about them bit me right in the butt. It happens more often then not, and usually the people involved were the last 2 people you would ever imagine doing it.
NO WAY; I don't even need to think about it. Honestly. I don't care if you're Brad Pitt or whomever; you're not the man I love so I'm not going to sleep with you even if I were attracted to you! And even if my partner never finds out, there will be eternal guilt on my end. That's not the person I want to be and that's not who I am. We don't do good things so we can win "brownie points" because other people see us doing them. And we don't do bad things just because "we can get away with it."
i honestly would not. I've told every guy I've ever been with that I am 100% not a cheater, and if a situation like tihs were to arise where I couldn't help myself, I would call him and say 'im sorry but its over' before doing anything with the other guy
I would not.. personally.. its a very personal thing.. and it depends on where you may be in the relationship (everything great, or rough times etc) and how much alcohol you have in your system.lolol.. but I wouldnt.. I think I know quite a few who would though.
Although she may not know the point would be that I did it. I would no longer be worthy of her trust. I couldn't live with the fact that I cheated on her. No, I wouldn't do it no matter who the girl was. My penis belongs solely that one woman I love.
yea I would I have been wanting to f*** my friend cause I haven't had sex with another guy yet and its on my "list" to cross off still. I would for sure
Absolutely not. And for the person who said "it depends on how happy I was in my relationship" well...you answered it right there. You're obviously not happy at all if you'd even considering doing that! Geez...
I really don't know I haven't been in that situation in where I the girl was that hot that if it was worth it. Thinking about it right now I would say yea but I think if I was in moment I might not I would feel to guilty
I wouldn't cheat. I would be cheating on my partner, my best friend, my lover, my wife. And inevitably I would be cheating myself out of a great marriage.
It's not that my girlfriend has a flaw that makes me want to find something "better," it's just sometimes you see this smoking chick where you said I'd tap that in a heartbeat. I'd most likely get scared off because I'd be worried that my girlfriend would fine out (that's how my last relationship ended =/ ) but if you add in the whole, "guaranteed they wouldn't find out" I don't know many guys that could resist. What we say and do can be two completely different things, in the end it's all about the moment, and you can think back and say "what the hell was I thinking" all you want, but it's that moment that changes everything.
From what I've seen, especially for girls, if they can have awesome sex and get away with it they will go for it, regardless what everyone says. Especially when their on vacation.
Absolutely not! Besides how guilty I would feel with myself afterward, how can someone else ever trust you again? It isn't worth the short-term pleasure!
Now, don't get me wrong. I am a man with a sexual drive just like anyone else. A hot girl that is making moves on me is very tempting. Yes, thoughts cross my mind. Not acting on my thoughts is what keeps my relationships healthy.
I think I would be really tempted, but In the end I don't think I would cheat. I mean I would have to live the with guilt for the rest of our relationship, and I want to be fully honest with my partner. I would probably end up telling her because I would just feel such a relief when I do. And I would like to be totally open, so that I know she is open to me too. We hold nothing back.
So in the end no. Because I would feel too guilty.
I may be in the minority here, but I've always felt personally affected by the thought of cheating. My major motivator not to cheat on someone is personal respect for myself. I would lose my sense of integrity and essentially my respect for myself. So, no, whether or not my partner would find out about it would have nothing to do with it, I wouldn't cheat simply because I believe it's the wrong thing to do whether you're found out or not. I try to live above that, with integrity.
Lots of people really LOVE someone but still have a desire to cheat. Lets face it every one has there flaw and typically with men they are visual - so you may be in love with your girlfriend but if some woman who is practically baring all comes up - chances are you love your girfriend, but you love yourself more in that moment. - 7 months ago
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