Auraann

Men..... If you really are falling for / in love with a woman

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Auraann (Age:25 to 29)     When: 4 months ago
Category: Relationships

What would you do and how do you treat her?

What is standard ?

And what do you do?

Thanks guys


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What Guys Said

  • twice-shy
    1339  
    4 months ago
    She is precious to me. And I'm happy just being in her presence. I have been more than happy to just drive to her house long enough to drop something off and to leave, if that were to be the case at the time. Just to see her in person, is fulfilling a longing from not being with her since the last time. And I give sacrificially to her in order to meet any needs and also to bring happiness. I love to see her smile :)

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  • Steelcore1085
    1285  
    4 months ago
    I believe I have found The One. I plan on asking her to have a relationship.

    I would show her what true affection is, since her ex never really showee her the true affection.
    I would give her my total focus and never be interested in another woman. Once you truly love a girl, all the others you want to keep in the friend zone!
    I would do anything to protect her. If anyone threatened her well-being, I would step into the line of fire and take the heat. I would take a bullet for her if it came down to it and the situation went that far south.
    I would show her true loyalty and always try to make myself better as an individual for her and myself!
    If we had any problems or misunderstandings, we would discuss these issues and try to find out what was misunderstood and try to fix the problem. If we didn't, those little issues could become big problems later on!
    I would be willing to drive to her house anytime and just be there for her to hold on to whenever she was sad or extremely upset. Generally, I would always be there for her!
    I would constantly remind her that she means the whole world to me and she would be my one and only.

    These are some things I would do for her...

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    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      You will eventually find him sooner or later!
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      That is lovely , I really need to meet a better guy
  • FastAndFurious27
    623  
    4 months ago
    My Girlfriend of 4 years is the love of my life.
    I'd do anything to make her happy, I bought us a house, bought her a car, buys her jewelry, shoes and all that girls wants.

    But that's just what money can get her.
    I tell her every single day that I love her more than anything or anyone in the world, I tell her how beautiful she is, how I adore her and that I wouldn't be able to live without her.
    I've never felt love before I met her :')
    I usually take her out on dates and spend as much time as I can with her, we go to the movies, restaurants, ice skating (even though I suck) amusement parks and stuff like that.
    Some days we just lay in bed all day and cuddle.
    We never argue, we really love being together, we even go to the gym together and we could just cuddle in the sauna :)
    I also really enjoy cooking for her, and she tells me that she loves the food so I'm really happy about that.
    We also mess around a lot, and both of us likes to pull jokes on each other.
    I've literally, got in 3 fights for her so far, not really something good to do but these guys were really bugging her, which of course bugs me too.
    She's my best friend, soulmate, and lover.
    To say the least, when she's happy I'm happy, if she's sad I'm sad, if she ever need anything I'll get it for her, there is absolutely nothing I wouldn't do for her.

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    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Hehe thank you :)
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Oh my god she's so lucky ! :-)
  • Ron601
    2377  
    4 months ago
    Well I have the love of my life and I treat her like a queen if you want to think of it that way. She can literally have anything she wants, I bought a house, got her a brand new Cadillac CTS-V I love her and she loves me we spend a lot of time together and just enjoy each others company. I work a lot but its a home investing so we see each other all day everyday. This summer we went to Florida and I took her shopping and we just hung out at the beach and had diner. I need to stop watching movies becasue it is costing me too much money. By the way that's where I get my ideas from movies and stuff, and my girl loves everything I do. Stuff like that though, which is good becasue we don't fight and I enjoy that way more then money.

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    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      thanks.
    • 4 months ago
      Well said mate, couldn't have said it better!
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      I am not perfect trust me I have my flaws just like everyone else. I just choose to be a good person and treat people with respect and dignity.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Thanks I just can't find an inteligent guy and I am actually pretty educated , I am consurned that maybe why. Anyway you seem perfect
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Thank you, I know that is why I work at home so me and her can spend time together. Smart yeah I am but it was more about seeing an opportunity and taking a risk that paid off in the end. As far as the guys go make sure they are smart every girl deserves to be treated like those girl we see in movies. Make sure that the guy has ambitions and is actually working toward making them come true. I really hope you meet a nice guy that will love you and make all your desires come true.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      I come from a wealthy family , but I sincerely think you must be very inteligent to have thought that up. Yeah I hope she knows , and thanks I hope so. Just meet bad guys .But you sound like prince charming, I bet she gets to do all the romantic stuff. Good luck to you. But remember time is worth more than money try make sure you value it
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Well remember when the economy crashed I bought stocks at very cheap prices now I just sit back and get a check for $750,000 every three months. Plus if I ever sell them I will get about 100 million or so. But I still have to read and do research about the companies to make sure they are making money and stuff. . And thank you very much I hope she knows how luck she is. don't worry I am sure you will find someone that will all of your dreams come true.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      How have you managed that by 23/24 ? Wow. And yes I see what you mean, very sweet. She's a lucky girl. I m not so lucky.
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Yes but I make three million a year so I have plenty of money to go around. Plus her family is my family we are getting married next year, I love them all the same and I care about their well being and future.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Isn't your family more important really?
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      thank you, I really am I bust my ass working 80 hours a week to make sure her and her family can have anything they wants. that includes my family too.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Awh you sound like a great boyfriend
  • Passion_Prevails
    1184  
    4 months ago
    Treat her extra special. Do whatever to make her feel good. I've only fallen in love once, I thought I did when I was in high school but that wasn't love. Today, yea I am in love with this girl. Unfortunately I failed to treat her the way I needed to simply because I didn't feel that she was interested in me at the time, big fail.
    But yeah, love can make a dude go crazy. If the girl I loved and I dated, I would do everything I could to assure her my feelings for her. But not in a desperate way or simply doing everything for her, that's unattractive for both sides.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Aww
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    Anonymous User
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    4 months ago
    How to treat her? Well how you do think? With lots of love.

    What that constitutes differs from man to man, but it's still the same. Do little things for her, try to make her as happy as possible, want things to go smoothly every time.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      I ve had bad relationships , I am in a new one and it's interesting to hear how guys act. I can't tell if I am being treated nicely as I've always had abusive bfs. But my new ones nice so seeing what guys do when they like girls :-)
  • Ryosanada
    4303  
    4 months ago
    I would treat her like the pricness she is. There is no standard at all. Each person is different, and we all have different ways of showing affection, or even dislike.

    I would do what I do for every woman/girl. I open doors, pull out seats, call them pretty, but if she's my Girlfriend I'd call her lover or something for a pet name. I'd buy her outfits, and ask for her opinion on stuff I'm buying for me.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Awh
  • jmr2191
    4322  
    4 months ago
    There is no standard. Every man (and every woman) is different.

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    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      I'm extra nice, pay more attention to her, spend more time with her, maybe take her out as a friend...usually, she will pick up on the vibes fairly quickly. Just don't leave a guy hanging.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      I meant it in the standard for you sense
  • MikeK
    13069  
    4 months ago
    I try to focus all my attention on her... call her daily, make her feel special...

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    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      It should be...
      but unfortunately, most women do not reciprocate - you can't treat her TOO well, apparently.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Sweet :-)
  • FutterwackenMcSappin
    1251  
    4 months ago
    Things that would normally make me think twice usually don't bother me at all. For example, if she needed money, or a ride to the airport. Or something as simple as bringing her a coffee from Starbucks before she heads off to work. Coming by just to talk, not for sex. Or she's the first person I think about talking to when I have something significant happen. <==That's a big one.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Awh very sweet :-)
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    Anonymous User
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    Anonymous User
    4 months ago
    I stick it in her really hard and for a really long time.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Yeah great lol
  • avans
    1448  
    4 months ago
    I spend more time with her, treat her like a queen and different than the girls I know...

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Sweet :-)
 

What Girls Said

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    Anonymous User
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    Anonymous User
    4 months ago
    Nice question Auraann! Seeing all the answers on here is really forcing me to take a hard look at my current relationship.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      No I am glad you did , you are right . It shouldn't matter it's about the person
    • 4 months ago
      or how successfull you are.
      Besides, I do not know how old you are, but if you're still in your 20s it's normal to still have doubts about what to do. Sure some people already have their life mapped out. But some persons are more slow to decide on what they should do.

      Again, feel free to ignore my rambling as I wasn't at all invited to give my opinion.
    • 4 months ago
      he somehow doesn't fit some criteria. Many women make the mistake of going around with ha checklist of "who" they want their partner to be (socially) when in the end the one thing that matters is how he will treat her and his personal qualities (is he affectionate? is protective?) Once you're a couple and you're married, you're in for better or worse, and the latter means that if something bad happens you still stick together because your love doesn't depend on how much money you make
    • 4 months ago
      I am so very sorry to butt in in your conversation I didn't mean to read it but well I also think this was an extremely good idea to ask this question. I think it just goes to show that men do really put in a lot effort fro the women they love. It really feels good and refreshing reading their answer.
      Anyway seeing that you were concerned over your boyfriend's lack of ambition, I simply wanted to say that if you have a good thing going with your boyfriend you shouldn't throw it away because
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Thanks you to Hun ! Hope your guy starts treating you like you desurve :-)
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Haha! I know! Crazy! Thought those things are only in movies. Cheers to a great question and I really hope it works out between you and your SO :D
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Wow , I am really sorry to hear that. My relationships to new too tell if he will act like these guys but I don't think he will, so I ll be doing the same as you I am sure. Till I asked this question I did not know men actually act like we dream they would. Crazy hey
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Funny thing is, I've never really questioned how he treats me until I read these posts. He respects me and is sensitive to my needs, but honestly...that's it. He never puts in that ounce more effort to make me feel loved, and I know he never will. I've been frustrated with that a lot, but never brought it up kuz marriage wasn't on my radar until recently. I'm comfortable with our relationship but I'm so so far from happy in it. So I guess it's really time to just throw in the towel.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Yeah but it's not ambitious , I love ambition :-) . Your degree sounds cool and your boyfriends is really impressive , I love science and I think the jobs market is going up for science. Does your boyfriend treat you right? Maybe you could have a discussion with him about how you feel?
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      I mean your situation sounds pretty good actually. I do programming and my boyfriend is in biomedicals. It's a hard market for us science geeks, so I'm also minoring in business. But my boyfriend doesn't really have a clue what to do with his degree and has no motivation to land a job. It's just not sustainable. But your bf's career sounds pretty solid, all talks of ambitions aside, it's practical and there is demand for it.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Sounds like the same situation . My current guy is a electritain , I guess that's ok? I am going to be a physiologist but I am currently a teacher, What do you think? What are you training to be? What does he do?
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Haha, that sounds familiar! Same here, my partner doesn't have any major goals or ambitions, he's kinda just ... drifting through life at a rather prominent age... :/ It didn't really bother me back then, but now that I'm closer to being done my education and starting a career, I don't think this relationship is sthg that I can incorporate into my future.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Thanks! It that's the reason I asked it really. My current partner doesn't have major goals and that seems important , most of these guys are very sweet
 
   
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