I have been friends with this guy for 5 years now and he's still a virgin I lost mine to my boyfriend about a year and a half ago the catch is I'm still with him but want to have sex with my best friend for a mutual reason of I want him to lose it to someone special. Is that wrong?
You might want his virginity, but it's only his to give. Does your boyfriend know that you want to take your friends' virginity? What do you think that he'd say if he heard that? I'd hazard a guess that he'd not exactly be thrilled by the prospect. You may be someone special, but you're not his 'special person,' not in this way at least. He wants to lose it to the person of his dreams, not just because he can lose it. It's not yours to take.
Yes it is wrong, being a friend and being a friend with romantic interest are different things. People should lose their virginity to somebody they love not just a platonic love but a love that will last them through a marriage. If he hasn't done it yet then he is obviously wanting to lose it with somebody special to him, like his wife one day. Having sex bonds two people and to do it just as friends will probably cause problems down the line. Don't do something that may jeopardize your friendship with him as you say he is a very good friend to you.
I understand what your saying but it's still wrong. You have a boyfriend. Is he ok with it? If so, have multiple partners but that's kinda skanky if you ask me. Is that the only reason? Are you the only girl that's "special" on this planet? What's wrong with another girl? What makes you more special with them? I just think you want to have sex with him. Plain and simple.
Ask yourself this. What is your boyfriend doing wrong to make you want to have sex with someone else? Are you just a naughty girl? Your pretty young, so I would get to know yourself more before you start having sex with just friends. That's definitely how skanks start out. Don't go down that road hun..
Totally skanky. Can't believe you have to ask this. What a terrible thing to do to a "best friend" If your best friend were a girl would you want her virginity? I didn't think so. Get rid of your inner skank. - A minute ago
Don't have sex with him. If he is your best friend and want to help him find him a great girlfriend. I can't believe you are thinking of this don't you love your boyfriend if you do don't think of it.
It is wrong. It sounds to me that you want to do it out of pity. That is the last reason I'm sure he wants to lose his virginity for. Even if he's holding out for marriage, or for someone he's in love with, or just hasn't been very lucky with the ladies. You'd do him a better service by helping him find a girlfriend.
I have to wonder the reasoning behind your own decision to be his 'special someone.' You say for a 'mutual' reason, but somehow I think there may be more. Are you maybe jealous of whoever that lucky someone will be that he'll give his virginity to? I'm not saying that you like him in a more than friends way, but that perhaps you're maybe too possessive or protective of him.
No. No. No. Do not have sex with him, best friend or not! Maybe he has his own reasons for staying a virgin. Plus, what about ur bf? Even if he says he's ok with it, deep down he's probably not. Trusting your friend to do it when he's ready shows both him and your boyfriend you trust them.
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