I am dealing with a breakup after 7 years. I had no idea he was cheating on me and he is in a serious relationship with her now. I am dealing with it through my faith and staying busy. I depend on my friends Kevin and Jesse for guy guidance to stay focused and not do something stupid. But, I write in my journal and read this website at some of the funny questions on here. I spend time burning his pictures in the fireplace. :)
The biggest heart break was when I was betrayed and all my dreams related to a person were crushed and I realized that I had wasted many years on the person who was not for me and will never be. I got over it by moving to another country and just being frank to myself about the facts that it's just the way it is and deciding to let go.