What it mean when she tells me I don't love you enough to get married. She tells me all the how much he loves me. She always tells me she wants to have my kids. She asked me lasted week what could we do to get married this year?
Update: Hey I have a update... I recently found out that my ex fiance who dumped me 5 months ago is now in a sorority(she ha never said anything about wanted to be in one when we talk) and she also has a new boyfriend.
2 months ago
Update: it is so funny she is all on Facebook saying how happy she is. "Im so happy with my man. I am totally shocked. But its cool, Please submit your thoughts..
2 months ago
The next time this happens call the engagement off and just be with her as only her boyfriend not fiance and if she still runs away from you without the excuse of marriage trust me the hurt feelings neglect and abandonment is not worth it sounds like she is being a little selfish and only thinking about herself she may be scared of commitment but then gets use to the idea of being with you then finds another reason to be scared and turns you down and leaves let her know you won't wait for her forever and to stop messing with your head have that final talk of either you want to be with me or not we are not getting married we are just in a boyfriend girl relationship and if you Wanna leave their will be no more of you coming back because you can't keep playing games with her its not good for you
Hey I tried doing that she is saying the same sh*t. I hate this girl your right Its time for me to move on as hard as it may be. I'm to good of a person - 7 months ago
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Thanx for giving me best answer I hope things work out for you emotionally and mentally - 7 months ago
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Hey Girl I found out that my ex is now in a sorority, and she has a new boyfriend. To me she had already been talking to this dude. we haven't been broke up fo 6 months and she is in a relationship already. She is all on Facebook saying she is so happy.... she miss her man she can't wait to see him again. Its funny..Thanks for your comments - 2 months ago
marraige is not the same as being together. the two of you seem compatible, very indeed i mean, maybe she just doesn't appreciate you for who you really are as a person if everything you do is good and there is nothing she can pick as a fault in your character some girls just need to learn how to appreciate their man
albeit there isn't enough detail here, but suffice to say
marriage is a huge deal. financially and emotionally more or less maybe she's afraid of committment maybe she just isn't confident and doesn't know much how to react to the situation and is a little shell shocked at the M word itself it's a huge deal and maybe it's just her way of recoiling into her own personal space if she isn't the type to wonder to another guy in the past, then it wouldn't be another guy I suppose but like I said, some girls if they have it good for so long, then well they just don't know how good they have it. i wish I had a guy to care about me, treat me like with respect, protect me, but yeah i think if she does come back, forgive her, tell her you love her, just I think if you've been together for so long, it should be a bond that's hard to break and can mend itself. personally I would love to get married with the right guy, that would make me happy. she just might be really afraid right now
Hey The last time I talk to her was about 5 months ago. I told her I wasn't go say anything about getting married again. I told her when we get to that point we could discuss it. I told her we could just date. This is the last thing she told me "I just don't love you" We were 2 gether for 5 years. She told me she love me every single day. Please help me to understand this f*** up situation - 2 months ago
She been saying that off and on, she will be find for the next 2 months then she flips like a quarter. she also states that I'm rushing her to get married, I don't she was asking me what could we do to get married this year. she always changes her story, this week she doesn't love me enough then she only cares for me. I'm like would you have sex with someone you didn't love. Why is she doing this to me. She want get help I don't understand - 7 months ago
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Marriage is a huge step that people should not take unless they are 100% ready. If she keeps doing this tell her that you are just her boyfriend until she can figure it out. This game is not cute and it's indicative that she is struggling with the whole marriage thing. - 7 months ago
As much as I hate to say this, you have to get away from her and break it off. Its not like she is saying she is not ready YET, but she is saying she DOES NOT LOVE YOU that much to get married. If she had doubts she probabily would have kept it to herself, but to get to the extent of telling you means its much more, I hope you understand what I mean.
Its not like they is gonna be a magic bullet that all of a sudden loves you much more to get married. Hate to say this but you need to break up with her and find someone that does love you.
He at first she did say she wasnt ready. then she would say I don't love you enough to get married, I only care about you. her story changes like the seasons - 7 months ago
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The more reasons to dump her...
You HAVE TO BE STRONG and realise this girl is not for you.
It doesn't matter how you feel about her SHE DOES NOT LOVE YOU... as a "brother, friend, etc" yes but would you marry your brother or friend....NO - 7 months ago
she sounds very confused. you can't rush mariage. but then agan she is your fiance which means she had to of said yes wen you asked. but still it seems to be a persnoal issue not anything to do wit you. jus sit down and talk with her. never kno you might uncover sumthin you never new b4 or clear up sumthin she feeling.
Hey I tried doing that so many times already, the only thing she is gonna do is tell me she can't be with me because she doesn't love me enough to get married. then 3-4 days later she is gonna call me begging to take her back. she will be saying I'm sorry I can't live without you, I need you so much. she always tell me she wants kids with me and she wants me. She tells me I'm everything she wants - 7 months ago
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Idk how long yal been together or hoe long she been doin this toyou. I kno I said you can't rush a marriage but being patient for sum1 and waiting forever are two diff things. all you want is to be with her. she says she can't be with you. you love her enough to marry while she does not. you don't have to get married right away jus because you egaged. I had a cuzin who was engaged for 2 1/2yrs before she got married. then again it wasnt because she kept changing her mind. id say keep at it a while longer. - 7 months ago
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But you have to make her nderstand tht tho you love her you can't wait for her to make up mind forever - 7 months ago
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