I am 18 and I have never really kissed a guy,... or had a REAL boyfriend... I live in a small town and am far from interested in the guys here that are interested in me... I've only really been interested in one guy actually and he is two years younger than me and definitely not ready for a real relationship.. I sometimes feel misunderstood, I mean I'm not the hottest thing in the oven, but people say I am cute.. I am very laid back , open minded, helpful, and nice.. I am not stupid whether it be ditzy or school wise.... recently I realized basically all of my friends have someone... whether they are dating or not, they have someone... I just don't understand why I cannot find someone for me... I mean lets face it when it comes to the point of not hanging out with friends because it makes you feel lonely and depressed.. haha that's sad. anything? anyone? :)
Is it possible that you are one of the more selective people, like myself. We tend to wait out for what is best for us, what is suitable. We do not go for anything that has two legs. Although you can feel very lonely and feel as if there is no one for you, I believe all of your feeling of loneliness and waiting will build up a more meaningful relationship in the future. Since you've experience what loneliness is, no good man in his the right mind will ever select a "loose" girl over you. I know it sounds a bit strange; sounds as if loneliness is a good thing. But I think it is because those who've felt it enough will treasure relationships even more. I certainly want my future lover to have at least felt this once or twice. So as for now, just hang in there. That's the only advice I can give. And of course, you do want to look and see if anyone is suitable for you. Also, if you are looking for a "soulmate," they do exist but are very very rare to find. So keep your head up, move forward, and be tenacious. Best of luck
Dang,. I know its cliche but I feel it ' I thought I was the only one' :) I completely see and feel your words. Thanks a trillion and mucho kudos birdman (and then some :) - 8 months ago
You don't always find love in your own back yard. You plan on ever doing any traveling or moving away? Try searching the web for groups of people that share your interests (within a decent traveling distance), and maybe you'll get lucky and meet a guy you are attracted to then.
Sadly, small towns are never really good at having variety of choices. Good Luck. :)
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