Cheat, for a night of wild sex; or remain faithful in a committed relationship?

I don't think you should cheat because if you do then might be tempted to keep cheating afterwards since you will still have your girl. If you are not happy with your girl then sorry but you are better off if you break up with her. I mean common your willing to cheat on your girl because she is not satisfying you. Seriously it is not going to get any better if you cheat, you will just put temptation on yourself and always be wondering that it could be better.

Sex can only last a short while where as a committed relationship can last forever. However I feel you may be doubting your relationship if you are even asking this question? So just break and move on or just love your current girl!

Ok do not cheat! That is the worst thing to do.
Break up with the current girl and move on to the online girl.

That is cheating. If she knew that it would break her heart.

Well I'm sorry that your girlfriend ain't that interested in sex and all.
but I think that you should just go for it an do the wild night of meaningless sex
and all since you are craving that and stuff.
and besides you wouldn't have 2 make that choice if your girlfriend had been making you happy and all.
but I would just say do whatever makes you happy and all.
i wish ya luck.

Please don't cheat on your girlfriend. It isn't fair to her. What would you do and feel if the roles were reversed. If she is such a great girl, then do you really want to hurt her? We have ways of finding out. And, you are misleading the webcam girl. Come on, you know the correct answer think with the right head.

There are many things wrong with this situation. I hardly know where to begin. First, your current girlfriend. You say you "love her dearly" and you "get along great" but you have a downfall when it comes to sex. Have you tried to understand why she feels this way about it? Has she tried to explain it to you? Maybe her low sex drive is related to a health problem? I feel that both people involved need to work together if there is a problem in the relationship. You shouldn't just accept something that clearly bothers you enough to consider cheating on her. Both of you need to have a serious talk about whether it's something worth trying to resolve.

Now about this other girl you just met. I suppose it's only natural to want what you can't have out of your current relationship, but is it really worth it? Be honest. Let's say you do meet up with her, do you really think it'll end there? That you won't want it again? Soon enough you'll be having a full on affair. And soon enough the truth will come out. I don't think you want to hurt anyone or be labeled as a cheater. And the fact that you haven't told her about your current girlfriend shows that you know what you're doing isn't right. I'd say stop now with this girl before it goes on too far.

Besides, I'm pretty sure you know what's what. You're old enough to know and it's clear in your story that you know it. So, do what you think is right.

This is what I don't understand about men, you can have a girlfriend that you love and still want to get it on with someone on the side. I am in that situation now, but I refuse to be the other woman. He wants me whenever I am around and he knows me better than I know myself. I realize that this is wrong, but I can't stop thinking about it. Basically I want him, but not if he has a girlfriend or maybe in spite of the girlfriend. I would be willing to give him what he wants and a relationship, but it seems more fun 4 him when it is sneaky.

Basically you are using this girl to get what you want. But is it worth it? Who is going to hurt more when they find out: your girlfriend or the new girl? It sounds like she (new girl) has some serious feelings for you and you mention that she does not know that you are attached. Did you not tell her because if she knew you might not be able to get the booty you will get otherwise? Look back at your own words and there is the answer. You are "rationalizing it" You know that you are wrong for doing it or you would not be "secretive. " Ask yourself is it worth it. You WILL continue 2 c her on the side if it is good to you then you will have a more serious issue on your hands.

You need to consider whether or not you want a new girlfriend if this (sex) is something that is such an issue in your current relationship that you are willing to step outside of it to have your needs met. Maybe your girlfriend has had something go on in her life that makes her not like sex or maybe she is just inexperienced. You should really think about all of this with the head on your neck not the one in your pants b4 you do anything.

Be faithful. It's a character issue. There's always an opportunity for sex, but not always an opportunity to prove that you're not a jackass. If you can't be faithful to your girlfriend, break up with her and find someone you can be faithful to. Don't break her heart any more than you have to.

Also, just as a side note, I've heard that girls who just let themselves get used aren't worth the confusion, risk, and potential craziness that could ensue if you sleep with them. No sex is that good. Or so I hear from experienced men that I trust implicitly.

You have to make a choice here. You cannot, and should not see both. You say you love your girlfriend. Well, I hate to tell you, but what you are doing is cheating. And it will get worse if you actually meet this woman for real. You will probably lose your current girlfriend over this, if she finds out. She will be hurt very deeply!. Are you ready for that? If you say yes, then at least break up with her before you hurt her with this affair. Then you can see the online girl all you want. Remember though, she doesn't know about your current girlfriend. What a mess you have! You could stand to lose both women here, because of your dishonesty in both relationships! I'm sorry to have to say this, but that would probably serve you right!
By the way, your online cutie is probably "getting it on virtually" with a bunch of guys online! Why would she only have "pretend" sex with you, and no one else? Think about it and wake up to reality! Its all a sick game! You may think I'm being a little mean saying these things, but I've done the online dating thing, and I've seen these types before online. Don't lose everything for a fantasy that probably will never come true!

Online is still cheating, no matter what way you look at it. If sex is that important to you and your girlfriend isn't up to par, say good bye. Cheating is not ok, period.

What about just breaking up with the current girlfriend?
At my age, I believe that settling for a relationship just because you get along, is to accept to live a life where you have robbed yourself of the potentials of a great relationship. If sex is very important to you, then your current girlfriend doesn't seem to be the greatest girlfriend that you could possibly have.
It doesn't say how long you lived with the girlfriend, but honestly, I would be thinking about breaking up.
Look, don't use lawyer tactics to say you're not cheating. You've been dishonest with your girlfriend, and you know that is wrong. Otherwise, you would do the deed, and be done with it. Somehow you still have some decency left in your personality, so if you were to cheat, I think you would feel horrible after. Eventually, it will probably cause the relationship to fall apart, as women do have a 6th sense about these things. So your best choice maybe is to stop being dishonest, and either break with the soon to be partner in crime, or break up with the current girlfriend, and then find a girl with a great personality, and that is also great in bed! :)