I am 25 and my boyfriend is 22. We have been together for almost 2 years now. My problem is this, We went out to a dance club last night with some friends, everything was going good until the end of the night when I decided to go to the ladies room. When I came out he had a good looking female sitting with her arm around the back of his neck, which I know that part of that is so that she can hear what he is saying as it is very loud in there. I just sat down and pretended nothing was wrong. He continued to talk with her until the babysitter called and the rest of us got up to leave. He never introduced me. When I asked him about it he said that she was an old classmate and that he was only thinking about catching up. The way I look at it is, isn't your girlfriend that you have been with for almost 2 years a big part of catching up? He said that this is the reason he hates going out to the bar with me. I get to jealous and over react when he is talking to other females, when all I am asking for is an introduction and acknowledgment to the girl he is talking to that he is taken. Am I asking to much?
No no go to all limits needed-don't back off-you want to know who the females are,he should have introduced you to her because it seems like he may hide you...just keep an eye on him...and he shouldn't tell you that you over react or tell you that's why he hates taking you to bars, it's your business to know who he's talking to.
YOUxKNOWxIT
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
No, but sometimes you have to be a little less protective. He's a big boy now. The only thing is, is that she had her arm around him which is a big no-no. You should talk to him and tell him that you can't have any girl have physical contact with him that you don't know. It's flirting and it's not right when you're already going out with someone. You should tell him that you felt uncomfortable and if he really cares about you he will stop flirting with other women so much.
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