My boyfriend gave me his password to his myspace profile so I went around checking things out and I looked through his messages, and then I went to his trash can-and there it was MESSAGES SENT AND RECEIVED FROM HIS EX. (they were from jan 3rd). So I looked through them and BAM-he was ASKING HER TO BECOME FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS! she said 'don't you have a girlfriend' and he had the nerve to say 'that's not an excuse' She said no-just go with you girlfriend. I'm just so confused right now! He tells me he loves me-but I had to find out that way-and he told me he tried telling me what he did,but he was afraid of losing me-he's trying to tell me now that he loves me,wants to be with me and there's no one else and there never will be. He's cried about it all and he called himself an asshole for doing it and he hates himself that he tried to do that, and he didn't know why he would have done that. He's telling me that I deserve better and he's caused me so much pain and he only wants to see me happy. He's apologized so many times-but it's so hard to erase the images of him trying to get with her and then kissing and hugging me! He even called up my mother to talk me through it because I told him I didn't want to be with him and it's too hard knowing he did that.
My boyfriend recently cheated on me, so I have an idea of what you are going through. There's nothing you really can do, that trust is broken. You should at least try 2 be friends but even that is hard sometimes, The only thing I can say is it takes time. Go out w/ your friends a lot & forget about it
brooketini89
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Dump him I'm in a similar place...if you love him and he loves you. You will leave him b/c he is capable of doing that to someone he loves is inexcusable. He wanted to be with someone else I think you've been hurt enough what will you do when he does it again? -Coming from an experienced source-
A cheat is a cheat and a liar is liar. How can you trust I'm knowing that he tried to cheat on you he did not have the common sense to get rid of the evidence. You need to tell him to prove to you that he is with you and only you. You need to do some research of your own and end your own confusion. Tell him how you feel and what your thinking and if he cares like he said he does he will work to change how your thinking and feel.
YOUxKNOWxIT
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
My editorial might help you out. If it does please rate it because not many people are. My editorial is on my profile and there is a ton of advice about guys. It's titled "Do not read this." And with the ex thing that is very wrong. you should confront him immediately.
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