I've been with my boyfriend for a month now. He's amazing, simply put. I've never met a guy with such respect towards their girlfriend and maturity in general. Not to mention, he's financially stable (very much so) and he's absolutely CRAZY about me. Which is a complete mutual feeling. It's like. I love the kid, but I don't know what sort of love it is.
Anyways, point being. I might have to leave the state soon (nine hundred plus miles away, actually) and I really don't want to lose him. My only other option is to get an apartment with him in a month or so. He asked me to do it. It's not like I asked or made him offer or anything. It was completely his idea.
I've lived with a boyfriend before. But my ex was different. His world revolved around pot, world of warcraft, and his dick. All of which eventually left me in debt due to the fact that he had a parch driving job making like. Seven dollars an hour? Damn mooch. Anyways. This is pretty much the first boyfriend that I've EVER had respect me and treat me so great. And I think that he feels the same way. I mean. We live in Florida, it's hard to find a girlfriend for very long down here, I assume.
Anyways, question being. Given the situation, is it a bad idea? I really think I might love this guy. And I don't love easily. I apologize if this is jumbled. I'm just really frustrated. Any questions, feel free to ask.
Well, I moved down here to help my brother out financially. Then he got a job offer that he can't turn down. When he moves, I've really got no place to go except back to my home state or the boyfriends. I'd love to stay. I'm just worried it's too soon. - 10 months ago
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Well, it's worth a shot right? Make sure to get a place with separate rooms, and be more roommates than dating at first, tell him you want to take things slow. After that, play it by ear. You can always move later. - 10 months ago
Don't move in and stay if moving has many great opportunities for you! Are you leaving because of a great job, or college acceptance? If so you had better go. If not then there is no reason not to move in together. I will say though that you should both sign the lease and both be on the bills and make up a long agreement about finances and such before you move in together. That way if something does happen that can screw you there are signed documents to take to court. I guess what I am saying is that if you initially think of it in a technical room mate situation you should be alright. And if it doesn't work out all you have to do is break a lease.
A month isn't very long to know someone enough to move in with them. If you think you love him and you find out that it was only infatuation what happens? You need to think about what you want to do. Weigh the pros and cons. He sounds great but you are in the honeymoon stage of your relationship. They are all great during this stage.
Okay didn't hear back from you so I am thinking that you know him for one month. For what it sound like he is really in to you. A man who is financially stable is a good thing. Every woman wants someone who can take care of them. It's great to know that you have respect for each other. If you love him and he loves you hey why not try what's on the other side. If thing's goes well then it does if it dose not as least you went for it.
I'm sorry. I've known him two months now. But I figure I'm not moving until March or April, so it'd be three or four by then. I'm just worried it's too soon. :/ - 10 months ago
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