enrawesor

Why is this stupid guy in denial?

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enrawesor (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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right, my partner, love him to bits yeah, but.. he never accepts responsibility, and never see's himself doing anything wrong, he just goes, what have I done wrong? I Haven't done anything etc? he doesn't see what he does and that, he thinks he's something perfect? WHAT THE HELL.


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  • Rick56
    502  
    3 months ago
    if you don't tell him what he has done wrong. How would he know? It is your responsibility to tell someone when they offend you. It is not that person's responsibility to censor their actions feeling and thoughts if they don't know they hurt you. Tell him what he did wrong. Don't get upset when he doesn't know. because even though some times it would be nice to have a mnetal connection with your partner(sometimes...) It isn't currently possible.

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  • martyfellow
    57712  
    3 months ago
    a have to sit him down and explain to him slowly and in detail. Guys aren't born understanding the ins and outs of what a girl might find 'wrong.'

    It's up to you to teach him!

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  • scorch
    551  
    3 months ago
    My ex was the same way.She blamed me for every thing I got to where I ignored her when she tried to start a fight. then she tipped my 60" flat screen off my gaming center. Right in front of my friends said I did it with the remote changing channel's. She never accepted doing anything wrong.I am pretty laid back guy it's really freaking hard to make me mad. She tried everything to to piss me off. I ditched her because she was loser. She is 43

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  • rogaortega
    1387  
    3 months ago
    depends. Do you usually start the argument? As in does he do something and you try to talk to him about it.

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  • DHarv24
    -1  
    3 months ago
    First explain what he did was wrong and why? But honestly if a man is going to be a man in a relationship I don't believe you should do that in every case, there has to be a sense of self accountability somewhere in his being. But honestly some of us don't because some of us haven't been raised in homes where that's taught(not saying that's the case in your situation). What makes a man a man is him coming to the realization that responsibility is priority...Meaning even if its not his fault he sometimes has to take the blame, because every time we blame the girl her worth and beauty diminishes in our eyes.. Take a step back and observe his behavior, does he clean up behind himself, how does he respond to the authority in his life (mom/dad/boss,etc.) and see if responsibility is his priority.

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  • douchebag4eva
    1461  
    3 months ago
    well do yyou explain to him what he did wrong or are you one of the "you should know what you did types"

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  • Yellowsmurf
    3345  
    3 months ago
    You literally just ranted about nothing. What did he do wrong? You're really expecting us to go "you go girl! Stick it to the man!" without even having a clue about what the dude did? This question makes you sound spoiled out of this world.

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  • asdaven
    1677  
    3 months ago
    Some people are just self centered and egocentric don't want to take blame or responsibility for anything wrong that they do. So, they say they don't ever do anything wrong.

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  • Mvc123
    1051  
    3 months ago
    omg, you're having an argument with him on GAG... wtf?!

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    • Question Asker
      3 months ago
      Lol, If you have nothing better to do than argue with what you call a stroppy teenager be my guest and carry on, I won't loose any sleep oh and if you don'tkke my profile don't view it, good night fool.
    • Answerer
      3 months ago
      My retarded comments make a lot more sense than yours do, sweetheart.
    • Question Asker
      3 months ago
      are you seriously trying to pick a fight at the age of 31? Say what you want love sure as hell ain't gonna lower myself to your level by retaliating to your retarded comments
    • Answerer
      3 months ago
      I may look like a twat, but you're the one who looks (by your profile & here) like a stroppy teenage chav who thinks that they are standing up for themselves when in fact they don't know when to keep their mouths shut.
  • Mvc123
    1051  
    3 months ago
    Do you actually talk like the way you write? F**king chavs.

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    • Answerer
      3 months ago
      If people don't know what a chav is, YouTube vicky pollard...
    • Answerer
      3 months ago
      Well I was going to answer, but...
    • Question Asker
      3 months ago
      look if you don't want to answer my question and write nasty remarks, f*** off.
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    Anonymous User
    3 months ago
    Your obviously dating a spineless dork who can't admit being wrong because he's got this impression that he's head is so far up his own ass, nobody would dream of noticing he's an ass whos sh*t stinks like everyone elses, but hey, your dating him, so I feel for you, you should demand more for yourself,x

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    Anonymous User
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    3 months ago
    If I don't take responsibility for something, it's probably because I wasn't wrong

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    • Answerer
      3 months ago
      Like I said, if I do something wrong... I'll take the blame.
    • Question Asker
      3 months ago
      what I'm saying is, every time something happens how can it possibly be my fault? if I do something wrong I'll accept it but when you make out its me all the time, its not like he's an 'angel'
 

What Girls Said

  • mashura
    2214  
    3 months ago
    Film him and then show him the tape

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    Anonymous User
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    3 months ago
    Can you be more specific? Like can you tell me what kinds of things he shrugs off? And please don't say "everything".

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    • Question Asker
      3 months ago
      if we have an argument, its not his fault its always mine, if anything happens, or goes, wrong he never accepts anything whether it be his fault... he makes me feel like everything is my fault, and that makes me feel like crap, he thinks I'm at fault all the time, whether we argue, whether I have an opinion and he doesn't like it etc.
 
   
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