I met this guy online I talked to him a lot even during my pregnancy. He told he liked me I told him I had a man and having a baby he said it was ok. So after a 1yr of knowing him online & talking to him on the phone I recently accepted going over his house & well I cheated on my boyfriend I have 2yrs w/him I cheated on him before & I told him. But now I can't I know he's gonna leave me and we have a baby together but I sometimes feel like I wanna leave him I'm confused what should I do I like them both?
You have to decide which guy you want to be with here. You can't have both. If your marriage is that bad that you cheated on your husband, at least own up to it. He could very well leave you, but then, you knew that anyway. If you have a great thing going with your online guy, then stay with him. But make up your mind! You have a real mess to deal with, here! Its a real shame that a child is involved!
I sense that you don't like him, your man, that much if someone else can draw you away from him. Maybe you two should only communicate regarding the baby and just decide that that relationship should end. Just my opinion.
BE HONEST. Not being truthful your baby's father and not being truthful to yourself if only going to hurt you both even more in the long run. Let me ask you this -- Why did you cheat on him again if you knew he was going to leave you if you did? That's putting an awful lot at risk for one night of booty, in my opinion. Especially where kids are involved.
Why haven't you left him before if you don't know if you want to be with him in the first place? It sounds like a very unhealthy relationship for you both and for your children. You may want to take a step back and see what you've gotten yourself into.
Hate to tell you girl, but buck up and be honest. If he leaves you, he leaves you and you'll just have to learn to deal with those consequences.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 10 months ago
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