I've been dating this guy for a little over a year. Recently he told me that he doesn't know if he wants to continue the relationship with me. We haven't done sex but he's been acting distant from me. Like not saying love you for a while. He just hot and cold.
He'll act all lovey dovey one day and surprise me and the next day he just won't as much. Not even hold my hand! Which we use to all the time. I want to wait till marriage or at least wait till I find the ONE that I think at least. I don't see myself with this guy as a husband nor I am MADLY in love with him. He's been pressuring me into sex. He just wants to do it without asking me if I'm comfortable or anything. He's tried soo many things. Like always inviting me to spend the night. Trying to shove his dick like "accidentally" when he purposely wants to do. Without a condom. He doesn't understand wtf no means. BUT I am really attached to him. He still makes an effort in our relationship to always drive over and stuff. He's a good looking charming guy and girls always want his attention. I'm scared that He'll cheat on me because I don't give him none.
I just don't know what to DO!
Does it sound like he just wants me for sex?
He gets really jealous controlling and aggressive. Over me and says that he's still really attracted to me but doesn't know if he has feelings for me.
I dunno if I should just MOVE ON, as much as it hurts. Once again this is my first long term boyfriend.
Sounds confusing, but it does sound like your Boyfriend is just using you for sex, "trying to shove his dick like 'accidentally'. " and I think you should just move on, if you aren't madly in love with this guy, don't worry about splitting up and finding someone else, most people have more than 1 serious relationship in their lives, maybe its time for you to start your second one.
As much as you think it hurts and is hard, you have to move on. You are young, unlikely you are going to find your husband yet, so go out meet different types of guys and be smart, make sure you get respect and the treatment a woman deserves. Put up with nothing less.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 10 months ago
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