I really like this guy, the only problem is that he's 12 years older than me, I'm not sure what he's feeling, Sometimes I think he's into me but other times it seems like he's too busy to pay any attention. Anyways I should probably mention to you that I am only 17 years old and that would make him 29. I know that it's wrong to have a crush on someone like that at my age but I don't know, I guess I'm into older guys. So anyways some of the things he's been doing lately has led me to believe he might feel the same way as me, for instance whenever I see him he's always offering me alcohol which kind of scares me and I always say no, but I'm kind of wondering why he would do that, and then he's very touchy feely because were always wrestling and he was tickling me once and went a bit too high and it made me really uncomfortable because I'm really ticklish and I kind of fell onto him and we stayed like that for a little while until my mom saw us and was like children break it up. Yeah my mom thinks of him as a kid too because he acts like one. And then the last time I saw him he gave hugs to all the girls and shook hands with all the guys when he was leaving and I was sitting down really comfortably and didn't feel like getting up so I held my hand out to him and he grabbed it and pulled me towards him and then held me like that and it was really awkward cause I was still sitting down but I was just like oh okay. And I'm not sure if this means anything but you know how some guys will purposely "bump" into a girl or whatever. Well he does that a lot and at first it was really annoying but now I'm just wondering what it means, if anything. I really like him because I think that he's caring but my friends are like stay away from him because he wants to use you and have sex with you and that I shouldn't let him. I just don't know what to do anymore, please help me!
Listen to your friends. They're right! Someone else already said it here. Your uncomfortableness is your instincts telling you to get away from this guy.
If this guy does like you he is just going to use you as a sex toy or for something else that he wants from you. He is a perv that is desperate for some sex even if it means doing it with a girl 12 years younger than him.
If you were 27, and he was 39, there wouldn't be any problem about your age. However, you are underage at this point, and that makes him a pervert, no matter how you talk about it. That having been said, do you really like the way he treats you, anyway? That has nothing to do with your age; the man really has a problem with the way he treats women, period! Get away from him, immediately!
OMG. This guy is a TOTAL perv this is 2degree felony in most states. What do you want with a guy that is that much older than you anyways? He has nothing to offer you! Think about it. When you are 25 which is the time to have a family and get married for most. He is going to be almost 40! What do you want with a guy like that? Also any man that takes advantage of a young girl has no morals. He is bad news all the way around.
He is a pervert and you need to get away from him. First off, he has absolutely no right to offer you alcohol. He needs to find friends his own age. If you are feeling uncomfortable around him because he bumps, and touches you that is your insticts and he is gross. Stay away from him Sweety he is nothing but trouble.
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