I have never been in a relationship before even though I'm already 21. I have known this guy for probably 2-3 months and we met through one of our elective classes. We study in the same university but are from different majors. I went out with him during the holidays and during the holidays, this is what he does:
- He texts me almost everyday on what am I doing - He asks me out for movies and to eat and sometimes to play - Whenever I'm on MSN, he will be the first to talk to me though I did a few times initiate the conversation - He touches me, not much but does grab my arm when we are close or when I walk in the wrong direction.
I am having mixed reactions on whether he likes me or not but I think he does from the way I look at it but he didn't say anything neither did I. I saw him less when university reopens but he we still hang out and talks to me regularly.
The last time I talked to him was 3 weeks ago was when I was feeling a little crappy that day and I texted him about it and he replied back some comments. After that he totally cut me off, I haven't been able to find him on MSN, phone or text and in the university. Its like he disappeared. I don't know why this happened, there were no signs previously he disliked me or something.
Many possible scenarios. Maybe he just decided to give up, because somehow he got the idea you were not interested, or maybe his ego got in the way and said, let's play hard to get, or maybe he got another girl. Is really hard to tell what specifically happened, but the only thing you can do, if you have the courage, is next time you see him, flatly confront him about it by saying. 'so you used to text me every day, msg me every day on im, and the suddenly you ignored me. What happened? ' Sorry, but I think is hard to say why he is specifically ignoring you.
Hmm problem is I can't even find him so its very unlikely I can find him when he doesn't take my calls or come online. Should I just forget him and move on? - 9 months ago
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If that's the case, then move on! The same has happened to me. Met a girl, had 2 dates, and suddenly disappeared on me. Months later I saw her happily strolling the beach with friends. I just ignored her, but for 2 months I tried to figure out what happened - 9 months ago
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