Why is she forcing me to marry her?

Okay! If you marry her, I will seriously classify you as crazy! Do not marry her! You can always just be the friendly neighbor who likes her child.

Do not marry her. She's nuts. What kind of life will your child have if it lives with two people that don't get along? Life happens. Step up. You are going to be a father for the rest of your life. Make sure you are a good one. Make sure you are there emotionally AND financially. You do not have to be a husband for the rest of your life. If you are really worried about her "coming after you" then get a lawyer. The county can get you info on free and low cost attornies. You should look into getting one now if she's already making threats. Isn't it worth it to protect your rights and those of your child?

That is great that you want to do for your child and I hope and pray that you do. What you should do is file for child support and visitation rights with your local child support agency. Have them to take monthly support payments directly from your salary each month and then file for visitation rights. DO IT IMMEDIATELY AFTER THE BABY IS BORN!!! This will save you the headache and drama, TRUST ME!!!!

Good Luck

If she really cared anything about your child she would understand that being married just because of a child is never the right thing. if the child grows up in a house where his/her parents don't love each other, and they know that they are the only reason they are together, how do you think the kid will feel? Don't do it. I mean, of course you need to take care of you child, but there are a lot of families that function just fine and their parents aren't married. Hell my parents aren't married, and we are ok.

I know a couple who is married and have a child, the ONLY reason why they're together because they have a child, and I don't know what to tell you the best thing to do. If she loves you she wouldn't put you through those things, that woman is probably psycho.

First of all, how do you know that you will regret it for the rest of your life. She didn't make the baby on her own. She is reacting to a very scary and hurtful situation. If you were man enough to make a baby; then be man enough to take the responsibility. There is a reason that you two were brought together to make this child. There are losers in this world and there are winners. If you take the easy way out with out obligation to this child; then that's what you will regret for the rest of your life. Running to others to find an excuse will only delay what experiences you two can have to be happy. Your journey has been picked for a reason, please do the right thing, the moral thing, so your child knows the love that you excepted for him or her. You'll see that this is a gift and you will be blessed.