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Why does life have to be so hard

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funinthesun0606 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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I don't understand how one min everything can be so perfect and then the next everything is ripped out from underneath you I'm hurting so bad why do guys have to be so hurtful sometimes I'm in love with this guy and we have been together for almost 2 years now and now just out of no where he doesn't know if he wants to be in a relationship anymore and it just hurts so bad and he says he loves me and always has he just doesn't know if he is in love with me I have never been so hurt and felt not good enough for someone ever I just don't want to cry anymore

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gthcsmt (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
Hey girl. Don't worry, it's okay to feel this way. Just don't let it overwhelm you though otherwise you might go MENTAL! J'k! I was in the same boat as you a few months ago. This girl I loved so much just dumped me out of the blue. We had so much fun together the night before and then the next day all of a sudden she just says I don't think we should be in a relationship anymore.
It's okay to feel hurt. You can't change another person's thinking. It's up to them to make the decision and it looks like he already has made his.
My suggestion to you is just let it be. You need some time away from him now, talk to your friends, hang out with them, do stuff you like! But you should give it about a few weeks at least before even considering being friends with him. Otherwise you will just keep getting hurt more and more and the healing process can't start.
Trust me girl, I'm just starting to get over the girl now, it's been 2 months for me already. It's hard I know, but you have to go through with this or else you're just gonna be stuck in the "gutter".
Good luck girl! You're still young! There's lots of other guys that will be willing to ask you out! Heck, I'll even ask you out if you want! =)
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lovebird01 (Age:Over 45)      When: 9 months ago
I can see how you would feel badly after having this relationship for two years. It sounds like he is a little scared about staying with you long-term. There may be other things adding to his stress as well. All you can do is talk to him about it, and see if he will reconsider breaking up and leaving you. Try to get him to be very specific about what's bothering him; that way you will know what exactly the problem is! As long as he didn't cheat on you, or abuse you in any way, there is still a chance that your relationship can still be salvaged. Don't give up yet. Good luck!
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Lesae (Age:36 to 45)      When: 9 months ago
Oh sweetie, I am sorry. Its a heartbreak. I know it hurts. But, be lucky he is being honest with you now. He sounds like he wants a friendship. You will survive this and be happier. I know that doesn't help right now. You are good enough for someone he just isn't the guy you fell in love with. You are young and will meet Mr. Right who will think the world of you. You need to cut the contact with him so he will miss you. Stay busy and hang out with friends. Try not to think about him. Give him the space he is asking for. If you don't call him I promise he will call you. You can do it.
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