My college is having a vacation coming up the weekend after valentines day, and my boyfriend suggested that I should go home with him for the 5 days that we have off, but that he just wanted to go ahead and clear it up with his mom first, because she had been kind of bitchy lately. Well the other night I was talking to him online and he said he was talking to him mom he's be right back. So I sent him a message back and said don't forget to ask her if it's alright I come also, and after that he said he hung up the phone but got the feeling she wanted him all to herself (keep in mind she's a widow and he's an only child) and I understood, but now he's calling me stubborn for not wanting to go. Would it be rude of me to go home with him if she didn't actually say whether she wanted me there or not?
Tell him to be a man and just ask his mom. And yea it would be rude to just invite yourself to someones house without permission. And if he really wants you to go then he should do what it takes to convince his mom. If she still says no then respect it. After all it is her house
I think you're being neurotic and over thinking it too much. Maybe because you're actually really nervous about meeting his mom, yeah, I know how scary that is. So many thoughts go through our head. What if she hates me? What if she thinks I'm not good enough or pretty enough? What if I can't think of anything to talk about? What if I screw up at her place? Just calm down and relax. If he's insisted that you go it means it's not a big deal to his mom. Sure, she might want to spend time with her son and what not but if he's an only child it means she gives me extra attention and therefore is probably curious about the girl in his life. I'm pretty sure she wants to meet you. Stop stressing it so much, it's not like you told him he HAD to bring you home. He ASKED you there because he WANTS you there and I'm sure he wouldn't take you home with him if he knew his mom would hate it and make you uncomfortable. Just be sure to be very respectful at her house and give them alone time. Don't be overbearing, give them there space and spend some time getting to know his mother. She'll love you for that because you won't seem needy and clingy. And because you understand that she misses her son and would like to spend time with him as you seem him a lot more than she does. Also. Control the PDA haha :) Good luck with the big mom meeting
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When: 9 months ago
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