I have done a lot of stuff for my girlfriend and when I say I love you she sometimes says ya or sure. I really don't know what to do. I don't want to be on this break thing its killing me. I want to be back with her so bad so how am I supposed to show her how much I love her?
are you two broken up? did she break up with you? if she did, then leave her alone. You're only feeding her ego and making a fool of yourself. Same thing happened with me and my ex.
My advice to you is to find another girl to hang with, not only will this drive that girl crazy but she'll be too full of herself to admit it and walk away.
just didn't work out, you know. Don't beg, I think it is obvious she takes you for granted.
Truth is, at the time when I was going through that (except I was like your ex) I was too immature to be in a serious relationship so I treated "i love u's" carelessly and the hearts of the speakers as well.
she doesn't say I love you for a reason a girl doesn't say it unless she means it and maybe she's working on loving you and trying her best she also might not be ready for the iloveyou thing you have to try and understand her and let her know you approve of her opinion. just show her by not just telling her show her you care about her and you want to be in her life in anyway. chase her basically. that's how you let her know.
Well to tell you the truth I don't think that she loves you because if she did she would say I love you back, or maybe she is scared to love. If you already tried to show how much that you appreciate her and she still hasn't got the clue then you need to leave her alone. No need to be cold hearted but LIFE GOES ON!
I think you shouldn't take it so hard. Give things a little time to air out and see if she is really the right girl for you. If, after you give it time, you see you want to be with her, tell her how you truly feel. If she acts like she doesn't care or like she doesn't believe you, you obviously don't need to be with her. You could do so much better than her if she doesn't want to know how much you care. If she can't see how much you love her then she isn't really trying that hard to make things work.
crazngirl
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
You should talk to her and ask her what is her problem, why does she keep making it a big deal maybe she can't trust you. Don't worry you'll find someone better, yeah I know it's hard.
You seem to be young, always occupy yourself with other things like friends, sports hobbies. Don't waste this part of your life on this. A break is a way of telling you that you really need to focus on you. Sometimes it has a way of bringing the right person into your life. When you focus on you, that's when all the hurt will lift. So go force yourself to do this. If you sit there and tell her these things, she will go and do what she wants because she knows if all else fails, she still has you, and that is not fair to you and she will never respect you.
ignore her and show her you are a CONFIDENT INDEPENDANT stud. women (and everyone on this planet) want what they cannot have, if your there all the time trying to "show her" she will be bored and move on. who initiated the "break"? TYPICALLY a "break" is a lame excuse, what it really means is "i want to break up but I don't have the balls to do it, so give us some space to be single and see if I enjoy it enough, if I don't we can get back together"
by telling her"i would do anything for you, die for you etc" is viewed as WEAK and PATHETIC by women and she will ONLY see you as a "friend" despite what some girls below say. I bet if you ask every one of them if they have GUY FRIENDS "why they do" and what makes the GUY friends different than boyfriends the answer will be "no attraction, or they are a NICE guy"
What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I usually try to use humor to break the ice (no not stupid jokes or creepy sexual innuendos) I'll usually ask her a question about a class (if she is in one of my classes) or about something else. I might also comment on her clothing or smile, or something.
Once after that I'll tell her my name, and get a conversation, I'll usually tease her a little to ease any tension
How do they typically respond?
Well, it's worked 2 times and I've used it 2 times.. so 100% so far!
In one case there was girl in my class and she worked at the bookstore. I asked her if she liked the class and she said she didn't know. So I teased her about not knowing her own opinion, (nothing mean, just light humor) after that we got talking and I ended up getting her number.
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