My girlfriend I broke up about a month ago. I'll put it quite blunt I love her and want her back . I am still going to live my life but I want to pave that path so she can come back. She wanted me to go to a dance with her and even told me I was the dream guy she wanted there. She sent me messages like I want you to hold me, I love you, about a week after we broke up for about a week 1/2. She even had me come out to see her one night. I kept the meeting short and casual. She made me upset during a brief conversation and even told me I was stupid. I had been trying to be friends and still go to this dance. I will not be disrespected though. Now she is not sending these messages. Were we just around the corner of making up or was she just using me? I still love her and want her back. I am going to keep living life but it won't be as bright without her. Should I just not call her for awhile. I already apologized and set my boundaries for respect if she wants me to go. I am just so darn confused and there is only so much you can convey in writing these things. I'm looking for someone who has had an ex and found away to pave the way home for them. What worked, what didn't? Does she just need time to go out with other people and see what she is missing? Time is my ally to look inside and see if there are any areas I need to improve on. I want to make the best of this time and don't want the regret of a missed opportunity to have her back for good. I LOVE HER PERIOD. thanks in advance.
Update: I still love her but I have to keep living life. I'm going on my first date since we broke up. Just keeping my mind open to possibilities. Number one, I'm going to have one hell of a fun time!
5 months ago
So you love her. do you want her back? because if you do, stop wasting your time. Don't let your pride get in the way. If you feel this strongly about her, do something about it. If I'm honest, this is just my response to the question. I didn't read the whole story. I think that you have strong feelings for her, so do what guys never do, and put yourself out there and tell her. :D
i think you should just leave her for get about her I know its going to be hard for you but if she's going to treat you like that then she's not worth your time. you need to find someone that knows what she has and someone that will love you back. you will find someone better
i went through something similar with an ex but the end results were disastrous. I don't mean to discourage you but there's a chance that things won't work out the way you want them to or they just might. you really never know. honestly, I don't think that you should be talking to her right now. if you guys just recently broke up, you 2 need to just stay away from each other for a while so that you get used to being individuals instead of acting like a couple, which at the moment, you aren't. the things that she said to you and her behaviour, I think she may have just said them because she's comfortable around you and is perhaps trying to deal with the fact that you're not her boyfriend but she's still got feelings for you. it's like a love-hate thing. don't worry, I think it's just a stage the people go through when they're trying to get over someone. but for your sake, it's best not to be around her or communicate with her for the time being. instead, you should focus on yourself and think of how you want to grow as a person, as an individual. I get that you "love" her but like you said, you're going to move on with your life. I'm not saying that move on and forget about her completely but I'm also not saying that if ever you meet a nice girl down the road, that you should light a candle for your ex and let everyone else pass you by.
i think that in the long run, you'll only end up getting hurt if you continue seeing or talking to her as you'll find yourself wanting something that you can't presently have. I'm not saying your ex is a bad person, I just think that you should take care of yourself and just take some time to grieve the loss of a relationship and sort your life out a bit. think of it as an emotional or mental retreat.
Thanks. I have been taking a lot of time to grow as a person and look with in. The crazy thing is I just feel like were meant to be and I can't shake it. I asked God for some companionship and he gave me 2 puppies. I named 1 pudding the other bulldozer. They died around christmas 2yrsago. I prayed for a new companion and a week later I met my dream girl and later found out her nickname in elementary school was bulldozer. I think she is just scared of commitment right now. its just so har - 6 months ago
I want to problem is that my truck is broke down. she owes me money and I am in a jam to fix it. she doesn't have the money but still finds a way to go and hang out with people. it makes me mad because if I had the money I could go out and be moving on finding new girls to talk to. she doesn't have the money and I'm left holding the bag. - 6 months ago
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