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lilmislostluvr (Age:Under 18)     When: More than a year ago
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Ok. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 months and I'm really happy with him. He is 2 yr 3 mon. older then me and has more experience. Well he keeps pressuring me for sex, but I don't know if I'm ready. I'm scared that if I sleep with him, he'll leave me because that seams to be what he's after. But I don't want him to leave me for not sleeping with him. What do I do?

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lonely-inside (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
You should tell him no just no straight up plus if he keeps pressuring you to have sex then that's not a good boyfriend cause a good boyfriend should wait till the girl is ready no matter how long it takes.
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If you don't feel ready, don't let him pressure you. I know he says that if you love him, you'd let him do it, but it's actually the opposite. If he loved you, he would be pressuring you. He respect your wishes and wait. If he can't wait and you break up, so what, there are plenty of other guys out there that will respect you for you.
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MsVirginChica (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
TALK TO HIM tell him your fears and worries and make sure he knows you haven't had much experience.
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There are lots of things you can do BEFORE sex. Try that first. If that makes him happy to wait with you then give him a chance.
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butterflygurl (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
As you can tell you are not ready and if he really loves you he'll understand and take things a little slower. Maybe you should try talking to him about this...GOOOD LUcK!!!
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If he loves you he won't pressure you. Tell him straight up that you need a little time to take it slow, especially w/ all the risks you NEED to be safe. Besides, you can still have fun w/ out having sex.
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AnnieMurphy (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
Break up with him!!! If he is pressuring you and you are not ready then dump his ass or tell him that you are not ready and if he leaves you then apparently that's all he wanted you for and you will find someone much better then him whether or not you guys break up.
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mustbelove1 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
No you don't need to do. I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. I haven't had sex with him, you need to get out of the realstionship right away if he loves you he will wait. Love is not lust honey.
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cRaZyBeAuTiFuL91 (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
If you are not ready, then you are not ready. That's all there is to it. If that's the only thing he seems to want he doesn't deserve to be with you anyway. If he keeps pressuring you tell him you aren't ready and see how he reacts.
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