I have caught my now husband talking to his ex, it is always is done sneakingly so that he does not get caught. He leaves his phone around, and A couple of times I had used it the ex had called or left text messages. I have asked him about 4 times to stop talking to her he says ok, then I find out he has talked to her again. When I ask him if he has talked to her he always says no. And lies to me until I find out the truth for myself. Why can he not stop talking to her? Is there any hope 4 our marriage? What can I do to make him stop?
Unless there is a practical reason such as children, property, etc. , involved, there should be NO reason to talk to your ex. I've said it before on this site, and I'll say it again! There's a reason they are an "ex"! In my case, the exes hurt me terribly when we broke up, so why would I want to be friends with them, or talk to them? That's the whole point in moving on to another relationship; so you don't have to continuously revisit a bad relationship! I'm not bitter or mean here; but I just don't think you need to rip open old wounds for no good reason!
Well, he is married now. He should have nothing to say to his Ex unless they are really good friends and have been since before you. If not, then he is missing her friendship or something. He should respect you and your marriage more than that. If he is lying about it, then he knows its wrong.
He's not going to stop. If you tell him not to, he will just do it more? Sorry lol. but the reason he does it , is because once a lover always a "someone" that doesn't mean he likes her or anything it just means that she knows him in the sense he wouldn't just tell some chick off the street,or club the things he tells her. He doesn't wanna screw things up with you but he wants to be able to have someone to talk to that why he denies it, Don't act mad and don't act jealous be nice about it and try being better than she is, because you are, that's why he's with YOU. But also in retrospect never regret anything that once made you smile. But never go back to something that once made you cry<3
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Going out to a concert, a good sports game, something like that! then dinner! After that just whatever we want, go to clubs, hang out at home, just drive around!I would wear jeans, a tank top, and my boots!
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