Ok ladies I'm an honest guy, When you call me I'll return your call. When you text me I'll return your text. When you ask me to hang out sure lets make plans. When you need your space go ahead and take it. No worries.
I'm laid back I don't want you to worry. I'm in a relationship with you. So when you try to contact me. I respond to you. I don't want you to think I'm playing games so I'm honest. Would you rather I didn't respond sometimes? Would you rather I made you wait for a response? Would you like to wonder where I might be? Would you want me to give you a good excuse as to why I could not respond to you at that moment? I mean I could. Would it make you feel better? Would it make you want me more? I mean I thought you liked me. You told me you do. Why would me not responding make you want me more? Wouldn't I be an @sshole? I sure don't want to be an @sshole. Is this what they call the "GAME"? Should I play this "GAME"? Is it fun? Wouldn't playing this "GAME" cause problems? I don't really want problems. What is the secret of the "GAME"? If I do decide to play how do I win?
You are doing absolutely the right thing, and this kind of honesty is important in relationships, especially new ones. Any girl who says otherwise is not in the relationship for the right reasons. A girl who cares about trust, integrity, and respect in a relationship will value your honesty, and any girl who gets bored of you because you show her this type of respect has some obvious issues.
That being said, here's a quick word of caution. Note that there is a difference between reciprocating acts of communication, and suffocating a girl. Communication and making plans is great, just make sure you are not ALWAYS the one to call or text first, and that you're not constantly asking her if she wants to hang out. It doesn't sound like you're doing this, but just a heads up. It gets annoying.
I wish I could meet someone like you. My ex on the other hand, kinda made me feel I had to pull his teeth just to communicate with me on a daily basis. We had fights over and over, because sometimes he wouldn't bother to call. He would go on vacation call me once, and won't hear from him till he gets back. If I wanted to see him, it was based on whether he was done cleaning, grocery or laundry, or getting a haircut. I understand when people make mistakes once in awhile. But if a mistake is done repetitively & a different excuse comes all the time women kinda get tired. So if he honestly didn't want to be with me, or didn't have time for me, I think I would have rather heard the truth. Instead I think I got pulled into his games for 2 years thinking things will change.
I'm in NJ so it stinks that you are from Canada, A? Lol I really appreciate your comment because I just broke up with my girl friend and you just gave me a boost of hope :) thank you. - 6 months ago
Yea I totally agree. Just be YOU! ^^ if you have to be another person to be in relationship with her then this relationship isn't gonna last. Most importantly I doubt you will be happy as well. - 5 months ago
You are just a good hearted guy that some girls like to use and play games with. Most Women don't play games. Girls play games. There is a difference. Once you meet a woman, you will see the difference. I don't play games and either do my fiends. If a girl wants to play games? Play monopoly with her and find a Woman.
Only Little GIRLS want to play games. A woman, wants and upfront and honest guy. I hate when guys have that 2-3 day "rule" before calling girls. That's nerve wrecking and it doesn't bring any mystery into my mind. It makes me believe that you don't really like me like you said you did. Granted, no woman wants to know where her man is at 24/7, or needs an hourly phone call to feel secure. Relationships are about trust. But if she calls or texts and you answer, there is nothing wrong with that and most WOMEN would be thankful. Keep up the good work!
I feel like if your always honest with this one girl then you must love her or really like her. She doesn't know good if it was to slap her in the face.
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She must like a mysterious guy, one that keeps her curious without arguments you can't have a good relationship don't play games with her because you have a good chance of losing her believe it or not but it's hard to win games when your going against a women she'll never quit take it into consideration and just ask her about it
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