Or do you believe in a soul mates? I know it sounds silly, but this guy that I recently broke up with (and we are still friends and still care and love each other), but we had so much in common. It's odd, but we just had so many coincidences too (like having parents with very similar names, having only half brothers and sisters, same music, growing up in the same type of environment). I don't know if its heart break (but I'm not really sad, I miss him, but I'm ok). But I just felt like he is someone I could spend the rest of my life with, like he was my other half.
I don't believe in love at first sight. I do believe in lust at first sight, but love comes from getting to know someone and having things in common which it sounds like that is more your situation. What I'm not understanding is that if you two have so much in common and if you could see yourself with this guy for the rest of your life, unless something happened what was the reason for the breakup?
I say wait it out. If it's meant to be it'll happen. You're still friends, so you're still close. Personally, I think the only time a relationship is truly over is when someone doesn't have strong feelings for the other anymore. I've been in your position. He told me he wasn't ready for a relationship. I missed him, but we continued talking and when he was ready I was the one who was on his mind.
As for believing in "love at first sight" I don't really buy into that. You can be physically attracted to someone, but I think love is more complex than just looks and actions alone.
Wow! Wait a minute. You wrote "If it's meant to be it'll happen" and then you wrote: "As for believing in "love at first sight" I don't really buy into that. " How can you say something is meant to be but question a person's ability to sense it when it is? - 6 months ago
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I believe that things happen for a reason. You may have a meeting with someone that wouldn't have happened if other events hadn't preceded, but I don't think that as soon as you see them that you should think "I love them. " How can you? You don't know them. - 6 months ago
He said he doesn't want a girlfriend right now. Before me it was like 2 years since his last relationship. He said he realized having a girlfriend (me) after getting back into a relationship with me wasn't really what he wanted... - 6 months ago
I was just wondering if people believe in the phenomenon of Love at First Sight. I'd be interested to hear everybody's thoughts on the subject.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Dinner followed by a walk on the beach... Nothing sets the mood like getting your toes in the sand under the stars, listening to the ocean... I would spend the night captivating her mind and let her know what I am about... It would end with a hug and a kiss on the cheek, so she could feel my lips but not experience the kiss...
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
She would know that I am real and she is intrigued and that she is dying to see me again...
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 6 months ago
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