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Cheating boyfriend?

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idkwhatodo (Age:18 to 24)     When: 7 months ago
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He goes to school and tickles and touches other girls. And I created this fake myspace and made up this girl and started talking to him (as if it wasn't me) and found out he'd like to go on a date with her. This is cheating right? And I do have a right to leave him? Right? I love him, but..

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MartialArtsManiac
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MartialArtsManiac (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Yes, he sounds like he is capable of cheating from what you've said here, but there are some other things to consider.

Why go through all that work just to make up some fictional person and trying to con your boyfriend into cheating on you? What's up with that?

I'd also go as far as to say you do have some trust issues you need to work out. For whatever reason you're so paranoid.
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Question Asker I was just hoping he'd prove me wrong. I know I'm no saint myself, but to ask a girl he didn't even know to go to a movie and dinner with him-is wrong, but luckily we've worked it all out. He claims he didn't know it was cheating - 7 months ago

Aedak
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Aedak (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
It depends on how far along you are in your relationship. If you're not exclusive, he should be able to see whoever he wants and how ever many people he wants, that's what dating is for.
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person1 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
I don't know if I would call that cheating because he didn't actually go on the date but he might as well be. He clearly isn't devoted to you. If you see a future with him then you should confront him and see if he'll change. If not then I think you should move on. There's plenty more fish in the sea.
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dave216 (Age:Over 45)      When: 7 months ago
I don't think I would call what you did cheating, after all you did it with him. Of course you have the right to leave, slavery has been outlawed you know. For his sake, I hope you decide to leave. You obviously don't like who he really is. You are underhanded and devious. No man I know wants a woman like that. I'm curious, what did you think when he was attracted to you even though he didn't know it was you?
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Question Asker I felt terrible, because that meant he really was lying to me. I guess no one will want me for being smart-in weird ways, but I was told he was cheating on me, we go to different schools, myspace was my only way of knowing - 7 months ago
 

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xsexybrunettex
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xsexybrunettex (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
yes, this is def. cheating. that's so gay that he would try to play you like that. if he seriously was gunna go on a date that fake myspace chick then its really shady. you totally have a right to be mad at him too. you think you love him but he doesn't love you if he is cheating. talk to him about it, if you wanna tell him about the fake myspace then do that but just be careful with him. :)
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Inkweaver2
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Inkweaver2 (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
You have every right to leave him! I would strongly suggest it! Trust is so important in any relationship, even more so in one where you two are supposed to love each other. If you can't trust him (because he doesn't deserve it) then you should get out. You deserve so much better.
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beautiful-syrrita09
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beautiful-syrrita09 (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
yes you have every right to leave him. he clearly disrespected you and didn't care at the moment. you see guys have this thing where they want to have their cake and eat it too. and then they just leave us in th dust to rot. that doesn't mean that he IS cheating, that just means that he WOULD cheat. leave him. he's not worth your tears and the one who I won't make you cry.
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Defiled-Seraph
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Defiled-Seraph (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
That sounds like a great plan. I'll try that on my bf. And YES. You have every right to leave him, hit him, and that IS cheating.
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RedRoan311
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RedRoan311 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
It would be cheating, and he seems capable of it. I would watch out if he starts acting suspicious or different around you. Don't leave him based on this though. Just because he said he'd go out with this girl (the fake) doesn't mean he's done it before. It could've been the first time he agreed to go out with another girl.
Just give him the benefit of the doubt. For now.
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Broken4201
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Broken4201 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Oh yea you need to leave him and it is cheating. If he is going as far as setting up dates on myspace then you know he would take the next step. Test him. Set up a meeting for a date and then he will really fall on his ass. Then you will know if he is the right guy for you. If you have to ask. Then you already know the answer. Kick him to the curb. He doesn't deserve you. Good luck!
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Mousey
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Mousey (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
Yes it is cheating as he was willing to go out with someone else. But yea I agree with the others as well. Look at why you have trust issues, And is the relationship really worth all the emotional stress.
Best of luck to you
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sweetcheeks
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sweetcheeks (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
1) if you found out that he was tickling and touching other girls in a manner that he shouldn't be than you should've confessed to him
2) since you made up a "fake" myspace that means that he has lost your trust and if there isn't any trust than there is no relationship.
3) since you found out that he wants to date someone who he barely even knows from myspace, I'm guessing he's done it before and/or done something more with other girls Which is CHEATING!
ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER.
i wish you luck
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
The thing is. You were kind of hiding the fact that you were basically doing some undercover work ON HIM! That's never good. But if he told "the other you" that he wanted to go on a date then I would say that he gets a little too close to other girls. If you are uncomfortable with this then TELL HIM! It will turn out a whole lot better in the long run for both of you!
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stacyyoun
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stacyyoun (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
If he is willing to go on a date with another girl then is probably entertaining the idea of cheating on you. Which, you are lucky you found out now. Don't always believe what other people tell you, but I would say that if you caught him pretty much in the act that you essentially have no choice. Hope everything goes the best that it possibly can for you.
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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
I would say that you have a right to leave, but I would also say that you have trust issues in order to go through all of that just to find him out. Bottom line is if you search for it. You're going to find it. I've been there girl. If you really LOVE him, you should talk to him about this behavior and if he really loves you then he would stop, if not then you should move on to someone who has a lot more respect for you.
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Question Asker I actually have talked to him, he said that it isn't true, but I've witnessed it, I only went looking when I heard a lot of rumors going around - 7 months ago
Answerer Okay, so he's lying. To be straight with you I'd leave, because not only doesn't he respect you (and other people know about it), but he is also a liar. Wish you the best of luck. - 7 months ago
 
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